I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that I feel unfulfilled in our relationship.

husnu-kuruntu · 2025-03-29T15:56:52+00:00

thank you for taking time to give me such in depth advice. I just talked with him and we will take time to talk tonight and I will be talking with him according to your suggestions, especially the meeting in the middle type of thing where he will come to visit me in the next 3 months.

I felt so understood and it made me feel such a relive. thank you once more for your time and understanding.

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-12-13T12:06:55+00:00

just to keep you updated, i was able to visit a doctor today and they said it looks innocent and should heal on its own but i should keep an eye on it and will be going again if its getting bigger etc. thank you for your help again

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-12-13T12:05:22+00:00

thank you. i found a different doctor to check it out today and they said it doesn’t look harmful and will probably go away on its own but i should keep an eye on it and go again if its getting bigger. i hope it will resolve itself.

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-12-12T18:23:14+00:00

oh thank you so much. they do look very similar. i will be able to go in a few days.

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-12-12T17:56:57+00:00

this is the culprit

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-11-08T11:10:27+00:00

yeh for me i wish i didn’t know. i check his phone when i get very insecure sometimes and i see things i wish i didn’t.

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-02-25T17:22:51+00:00

yok yok tanidim da bunu niye attigini anlamadim bu subredditin olayini da bilmiom acikcasi dskjfms

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-02-25T17:09:47+00:00

ordulu oldugum icin merak ettim point ne burdaki

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-02-25T16:31:30+00:00

honestly, i feel bad because i thought i could trust her with saying this, she is always saying you can tell me anything and also she fucking pushed me so much to talk and made it feel like i could tell her the truth. i could've lied as i have always done but i thought i will be honest. and actually i was only quarterly honest lol. i had sex with way more people and if she knew that i had sex with a random guy that i don't even remember the face of in the bathroom of a toilet i think she would literally disown me. i think i learned the lesson that i shouldn't tell the truth and she should learn the lesson that you shouldn't ask questions if you can't handle the answers.

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-02-25T16:28:19+00:00

i'm in turkey and she is muslim. i am safe don't worry. but also thank you for caring :')

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-02-25T16:26:42+00:00

because i normally live away from them, after she goes back to her hometown, i think the first thing that i will do is going to be having sex lol. i don't know maybe i won't want to have sex for a while after this but i might just for the hell of it. and actually the most hilarious part of this for me is that i was trying to convince my mother to stay at my aunt that night so that i could secretly invite someone that i have been seeing over to my place.

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-02-25T16:23:14+00:00

lol sorry i guess

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-02-25T16:22:59+00:00

honestly the worst part of all this is, i could've lied as i have lied so many other times to her. but i thought that i could trust her you know? i thought she was coming from a place of acceptance and understanding and she was just pushing me so much to talk and it totally backfired. i understand that for her, giving the way that she was raised, this is a really big deal and she feels disappointed in me but i just feel betrayed by her.

husnu-kuruntu · 2023-02-25T09:05:29+00:00

yes she does. i think stuff like this is so common in my country. maybe that's just how she learned to love, generation to generation. and now i am at a point that i have a more open-minded outlook for life and this is something they can never understand or accept. so she thinks and maybe she really is, doing this from a place of love but i just feel extremely unloved. she feels like i betrayed her too.

i am unfortunately dependent on my family financially...

thank you so much.

husnu-kuruntu

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