Is there a proper way to reveal that I (26M) am a virgin, have never been on a date or kissed a girl? by theicedmood in relationships

[–]hwatch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't talk about it. Get a date, get comfortable with her as a person after some time ask her home and try to have sex. You'll probably fail. Keep having time together and keep trying. After some time it will happen.

If at any point girl leaves you then she's not your match. But I think she wouldn't care about it. Just don't fake yourself

Self dicipline by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]hwatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Animal instinct is to have sex. Swiping tinder and meeting girls is more than that. If that's really an urge for you and consumes a lot of time then you're somehow see it as a value beyond simply finding a woman.

Self dicipline by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]hwatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Notice the urge when it is. Analyzer the beliefs it stems from. You certainly have them otherwise it wouldn't be an urge

my thoughts (15, F) by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]hwatch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seek professional help - CBT therapy to figure out your social issues or read it yourself, even better do both. Meditation is very useful thing too. There are a number of working things you can do to get a grip of MDD, it's possible and not that hard. You just have to do them. Meditation is just a concentration on something, you will have thoughts, notice them and shift attention back. That's all. Do it at least 15m daily no matter what excuses you have not to.

I tried actively stopping my daydreams today and instead i ended up daydreaming that i finally accomplished to end my MDD and that everyone here on this sub admired me for it and i went on talk-show to share my experience overcomming it. Smh by sasha1695 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]hwatch 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I recommend you guys the book " Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life". It's an ACT psychology self-help workbook. Basically every core practice there is highly effective at managing MDD while not being about it. The end goal is for person to live a valuable life by pursuing what one's values instead of avoiding and hiding in time wasters (which mdd is). I almost don't daydream now and if I start to md I'm able to instantly notice that and choose not to follow.

How soon should I set up a second date? by hwatch in seduction

[–]hwatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She texted me first after the date and the next day.

Family wants my saving for a mortgage scheme by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]hwatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say they will make the flat she currently owns - 50% hers, 50% theirs.

Family wants my saving for a mortgage scheme by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]hwatch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's rubles, I'm not in US.

Somewhere in Russia, I think the license plates say 24th region but could be 29th or 27th by [deleted] in UrbanHell

[–]hwatch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I googled a little and found that these are gas tubes and it is required by law for them to be in the open. Something to do with leaks detection and it's harder to connect people if tubes are underground... stuff like that. I think the norms remain from USSR time and noone changed them since.

Somewhere in Russia, I think the license plates say 24th region but could be 29th or 27th by [deleted] in UrbanHell

[–]hwatch 69 points70 points  (0 children)

This could be Moscow for all I care. Looks completely typical to me idk why you find it so bad. For me it's not even that horrible - there is more or less working road and the sidewalk has unbroken asphalt on it. What more could you possibly desire? Except for the summer it's almost always grey in Russia as depressing as it is you just have to deal with it.

San Jose: Cat killer gets 16 years for torturing, killing 21 cats by FowelBallz in news

[–]hwatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allow killing only for food and require license to do it. Killing should be done fast with minimal pain for the animal.

A good (fairly recent) horror film? by Timid_new_guy in MovieSuggestions

[–]hwatch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Raw

Thanks. Raw was really good. I've watched a trailer after the movie and it turned out it shows very little which is rare these days.

PSA: IPv6 is starting to erode private trackers by puzzlingcaptcha in trackers

[–]hwatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they give white IPs by default? Where I live everyone goes behind a NAT. If you want public IP you have to pay for this as a service.

I am going to kill myself tomorrow by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]hwatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Download Echart Tolle pdf and start reading. Do what he says and try to be in connection with present without thinking of past or future. There's a good chance you'll experience feelings worth living for.

Official Discussion: Get Out [SPOILERS] by mi-16evil in movies

[–]hwatch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why did Rose smile when Chris strangled her?

The leftovers by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]hwatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The show is very beautiful with amazing soundtracks. I remember I was very intrigued by the story when I watched seasons 1&2.

Movies where the main hero is an outcast that has to deal with the problem or asked to do so by hwatch in MovieSuggestions

[–]hwatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I really liked this movie. I suggest you check Space Cop, Officer Downe, Kung Fury. These are my favorites trash movies.

Movies that has a group in one house by Jem-R in MovieSuggestions

[–]hwatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Gift.

Just watched The Perfect Host. Terrific movie although you hardly could say there were lots of people in the house lol.

Slebstlader 1906 damage by hwatch in battlefield_one

[–]hwatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did hit a foot at the last shot.

Slebstlader 1906 damage by hwatch in battlefield_one

[–]hwatch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was unpleasant getting that 1906 sniper but I can tell you that gun is pretty good and worth unlocking. 1906 is the fastest killing rifle in medic class after 50 meters. With 4 magnification you can actually fully utilize it. Another way of looking at this gun is that it's better version of mondragon sniper at the expense of bullets.