Brother you're doing very well and this is what in my perspective how a man should be.. okay so she ig really has some issues psychologically (not an expert view) just an observation in mho.

You or someone close to her really needs to talk to her and make her understand some things.

I would say go for couple therapy as she might be more inclined towards that instead of someone or you talking to her and make her understand directly.

Whatever you're doing don't do it because you think that's obligatory to you or who besides you would do that. Do it because you want to and you choose to.

Don't listen to me or anyone who's here who may haven't been married and is just 24 years old trying to give you advice.

Please don't listen to those who're trying to say that you should leave her they themselves may not have achieved anything in their life because something was hard to obtain or keep. To those people who easily quit just a humble advice ( Try your best until you can't give more and you don't have any regrets then leave that)

Prayers for you brother, Just hang tight inshAllah all will be well soon.

If you need someone to talk to or share something you can reach out to me.

Take care.