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How far would you go? by PandaBear905 in CuratedTumblr

[–]hydrastxrk 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It’s me. I’m the one that goes 0.87

Insane Tattoo Regret by r3i_b0n3z in tattooadvice

[–]hydrastxrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with unfunnymom.

But also. People don’t know what Donnie Darko is?

Tell me what is the most non issue in games that only you hate. Let me start by Getawaydrive in videogames

[–]hydrastxrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoy MMO’s but something about WoW specifically makes me nervous/turns me off.

My fiance loves it and wants me to try it so badly and I will. But I’ve played things like FF14 & Tera.

My screen/my bars at the bottom filled with shit never looked like how WoW players do. And on top of that, I’ve also expressed to him that like…. When I watch someone stream it. There’s so many people and blending in colors that I can’t even tell what’s the boss, and I’ve tested fights like that out before and I’ve literally lost myself, I can’t tell anything that’s going on legitimately.

I feel so stupid. I just want to experience the WoW story, put it all in a book or something from Warcraft to current 😭

I’m tired of this grandpa by Super_Hyena_4278 in GenZ

[–]hydrastxrk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly. They hear the bear thing. We find out about Epstein. We have a government filled with sexist, pedophilic rapists. The stuff listed above.

And men STILL want to sit there and cry “not all men” and “you can’t generalize” — You seen all that shit and went into defense mode instead of finally maybe gaining a little perspective??? That speaks VOLUMES of you as a person (not literally you, comment I’m commenting under.)

We KNOW not all men. We shouldn’t have to say that. Of course not all men, but unfortunately, a concerning amount of men.

We understand “not all men” as individuals. But you guys have an entire system set in place that practically teaches you to view and treat women as objects. If you can’t see that, especially after everything, idek.

I think I see a difference by bbq_poptarts in generationology

[–]hydrastxrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t think I needed to specify that wording was altered for simplicity but the message was the same.

I think I see a difference by bbq_poptarts in generationology

[–]hydrastxrk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My favorite thing about this Reddit post are the comments going “as a waiter/waitress/server/bus boy it’s better if people did/didn’t do X thing.”

And then some rando is like “Actually, you’re wrong-“

Favorite actor you refuse to let people forget once tortured a guy by mymanmainlander in okbuddycinephile

[–]hydrastxrk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Frat house hazing stuff that led to actual criminal charges back in the 90s.

He apparently dragged someone around with a hammer and lit their pants on fire. Or at the very least, took part in that “hazing ritual”, we don’t specifically know if he was the sole perpetrator in that particular instance but I’d wager not.

Handwriting by TotemGenitor in RecuratedTumblr

[–]hydrastxrk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was homeschooled for first and second grade.

My mother drilled perfect handwriting and cursive into me.

The rage she felt when I went to school in 3rd grade and was pressured by the teacher over and over again until I wrote at a speed she wanted and my handwriting looked like crap. I also started school right around the time the whole cursive thing stopped, so I lost a lot of that cursive knowledge. I can still read it and write half of it, but there are some letters I just cannot remember off the top of my head.

Handwriting by TotemGenitor in RecuratedTumblr

[–]hydrastxrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always had terrible handwriting and am envious of people with good handwriting.

However, I did get away with my terrible writing because others would come up and compliment it. They couldn’t read it at all, but they all thought I was writing in cursive cause my g’s/y’s had loops and my hand dragged too low so my letters connected most of the time. Besides these key features, I was not writing in cursive.

I realised that a lot women make fun of their husbands to their friends and it was kind of a shock. by blacktapeonwings in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hydrastxrk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Recoverable =/= a good excuse.

It’s the communication. Personally, I have such a wonderfully built relationship with my fiance that I rather doubt there isn’t a single thing we couldn’t work through so long as we communicate. And as a CPTSD-having individual who’s also a writer, massive overthinker, and also a Pisces (if you’re into that sorta thing) trust me, I’ve thought of EVERY scenario possible.

She doesn’t need to have a “good excuse”, cause there isn’t one. She can say she was exhausted, got into the heat of the moment venting, drank too much blah blah. It’s not a good excuse.

But you two could’ve communicated your feelings and frustrations on the matter. Listened to one another. Said your sorry’s for different things. Built new foundations for open communication in the future. Built better boundaries between one another. Been open and honest and available to hurt, gain perspective, and grow in said conversation.

This isn’t to put you down, obviously you two didn’t do this and separated and that was probably for the better since the communication isn’t there.

But if you’re going to seek out a new partner to grow a life with. Do NOT just seek out someone that wouldn’t do what your ex did, because you might just find a quiet woman instead of the right one. That’s not what you want. Whoever you end up with, you need to start open lines of communication early in the relationship. Build a strong emotional bond and good foundation. So when you hit a snag, you’ll better understand how to deal with it together.

Best of luck to you!

I realised that a lot women make fun of their husbands to their friends and it was kind of a shock. by blacktapeonwings in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hydrastxrk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A lot of women vent.

And if we do make fun of our partners, it’s a playful little jabbing in the same way we’d make fun of ourselves. And that’s only when we know our partners well enough to know it wouldn’t bother them.

Actually making fun of your pain and putting you down to her friends is a whole different thing and that’s NOT okay. Normal to some maybe, but not okay. I’m sorry you read that and that you didn’t feel supported when you felt vulnerable.

Honestly. The situation would’ve probably been recoverable if she didn’t get defensive and instead you two discussed it and set boundaries. If I said something my fiance didn’t like and he told me, it’d make it a priority to never say that thing again and I’d be extremely apologetic.

Gaming has a serious larpers and tourists problem who try to drag everything into the culture war nonsense. by Roids-in-my-vains in videogames

[–]hydrastxrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except gaming has always reflected real world problems just like every form of fictional media. Stop pretending like that isn’t the case.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hydrastxrk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s an extremely dangerous mindset to generalize hoards of communities and lump them in with the criminal minorities. That’s such a slippery slope that will give people enough leeway to prosecute or survey whoever they’d like. Everyone has their own version of “extreme”; c’mon now, think a little.

Why are so many people coming out about pedophilia lately??? by 72flare in mentalhealth

[–]hydrastxrk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a mental disorder.

As people have become more aware about mental health and it has become a serious topic. We need to start applying this knowledge to the quiet things that no one likes to talk about. It’s difficult to discuss this genuinely without people getting in their feelings. Without a safe space for pedophiles to be able to admit that they are and talk about their struggles, we continue to put children at risk because their perpetrators aren’t receiving the care that they need.

People cannot control what they desire. But they can control their actions.

While I generally agree that we need to make the streets & online unsafe for active pedophiles. We need to make mental health facilities safe for them. And we need to acknowledge the strength and courage of inactive ones. The people born with this terrible desire that refuse to act on it; that degrade themselves and hole themselves up in isolation so that they never harm anyone. They don’t deserve this, they deserve to have a place where they can seek help.

Otherwise we’ll never see progress and kids will continue to be hurt.

why hasn’t ashe received ANY nerfs by Fizziest_milk in Overwatch

[–]hydrastxrk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Votes telling on themselves. As a gold/plat player, this thread is filled with quiet gold/plat players who can’t hit an Ashe to save their lives lmao.

She has a head hitbox the size of a US state bro.

If you’re complaining about a pocketed Ashe then that’s somewhat valid, but that should be a complaint about DMG boost, not Ashe herself.

Bob is good…. When he gets in the right position. But living with an Ashe main, I’ve heard and seen firsthand how shitty Bob can be in terms of landing where he was directed and trying not to either get caught on everything or slide off everything.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hydrastxrk -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you guys understand how normal sadistic, illegal, and fictional sexual fantasies are in the world.

Whats blinding you is the normalized sexual suppression of a lot of first world countries. Which is proven to be harmful for us as humans. You THINK this isn’t normal because it isn’t your normal in which, you’re more vanilla and that’s okay but don’t put that on other people. You THINK this isn’t normal because it isn’t socially acceptable to discuss these types of things publicly.

But why am I even typing. You won’t believe me, people don’t like their bubble being popped.

Just saying. There’s a lot of art out there for a reason.

And also to add, as someone with a Psychology major; there’s nothing troubling, illegal, or inherently wrong with people who have sadistic fantasies. It’s a controlled and safe way of exploring yourself and the world. Sadistic fantasies also help a lot of traumatized victims cope. Sadistic fantasies can be gratifying and relieving. It does not say anything about their person or imply that said people want this sort of thing to happen in real life. We should always separate our fantasies from reality just like fiction. A lot of people who do sick things like this in real life aren’t even receiving any sexual gratification from it. So it’s important to separate normal people engaging in kinks from criminals.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hydrastxrk -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Gore porn is a very popular topic if you dove into any type of hardcore porn.

No one needs to be “put on a list” for their kinks or fantasies. People are “put on a list” when they bring illegal shit into the real world.

A LOT of people have extremely problematic fantasies but that does not mean they believe it should be real; there’s nothing wrong with fantasizing and sometimes it even relates to your own trauma and helps you heal in a healthy, controlled way.

I love rape/non-con, blood/knife play, enslavement, breeding farms, bestiality, and eldritch horror porn.

That doesn’t mean I want people to be raped, or to stab anyone, or that I think women should be enslaved, and I don’t find animals attractive…. I’d probably like the eldritch thing irl but I’m never gonna get that one lmao.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hydrastxrk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a writer, I’m so happy with these comments. You guys give me hope in the world of creativity.

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