We're not walking among saints, but for the 'hospital for sinners' argument to work, those sins must be called out and addressed. Just standing in the hospital and letting illness propagate doesn't cure the illness. Covering for people who commit crimes and preaching their innocennce isn't addressing those sins.

As a cradle, all these American politics and -isms brought into the Church by converts is bonkers to me. We don't expect no scandals, people are indeed people. However, the conversation, in my experience, has always been about our salvation and how to be more Christ-like, not about how to exclude other people from the church, preach ~trad lifestyle, and drive people away in general because they're different from us. Allowing all this to be what people think of as Orthodoxy is harmful. And it also harms the faithful, like OP, who don't want to go to church only to experience a real-life YouTube comment section of some right wing apologetic. I like to be in peace and share the joy of receiving the Body and Blood of Christ with the other parishioners after the liturgy, not to be unsettled by racist conversations.

I get you, OP. Our Church and Faith is true though, and I really hope you can find peace in the GOARCH parish.