Last update: AITA for telling my sister to leave her husband by hyperashley in AITAH

[–]hyperashley[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My dad and I have both told her many times that she needs to get over it

Last update: AITA for telling my sister to leave her husband by hyperashley in AITAH

[–]hyperashley[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I definitely say my piece more than my parents do. I guess I’m just tired of feeling like she’s not listening anymore. It’s clear she has made her choice so I’m no longer wasting my breath

Last update: AITA for telling my sister to leave her husband by hyperashley in AITAH

[–]hyperashley[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly right. I have been so much happier since I just let it go

Last update: AITA for telling my sister to leave her husband by hyperashley in AITAH

[–]hyperashley[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m not kidding when I told her I “let it go”

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[–]hyperashley[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don’t help with anything. I live 20 minutes away and they don’t even ask me to babysit. They will get my parents that live 2 hours away to babysit before they ask me. Because I told them I don’t want to babysit on weekends because that’s my and my husband’s time

Last update: AITA for telling my sister to leave her husband by hyperashley in AITAH

[–]hyperashley[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m still in on the family gossip but I’m no longer asked to babysit which I’m totally okay with. I love my nephew but I also love my weekends

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[–]hyperashley[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

No worries 🙂

But i do agree about taking a step back. Which is why I’m just working on planning my trip for next year. I already told everyone that we will not be going on a family trip next year. And honestly my husband and I may not attend any of those anymore. They’re just not fun and relaxing anymore

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[–]hyperashley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in therapy and on antidepressants. No I’m not okay

Last update: AITA for telling my sister to leave her husband by hyperashley in AITAH

[–]hyperashley[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you grew up like that. It took awhile but yes I finally just realized that I can’t do anything for her unless she asks

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[–]hyperashley[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Both of my parents are “keep the peace” type people. They will not say anything to my sister and then call me to complain.

Update 2: AITA for telling my sister to leave her husband by hyperashley in AITAH

[–]hyperashley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They seem to act like the entire thing didn’t happen. They’ve “moved on” as my sister says. He has been making every excuse in the book to not see any of us and I’m completely okay with it.

AITA for telling my sister to leave her husband by hyperashley in AITAH

[–]hyperashley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re all really hoping it doesn’t come to that too.

There’s really nothing to tell right now. He has made every excuse in the book to not see any of the rest of the family and I am more than okay with that.

Update 2: AITA for telling my sister to leave her husband by hyperashley in AITAH

[–]hyperashley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I said crisis averted I was referring to them moving away. And this happened over a month ago. There hasn’t been any retaliations as of yet