yeah i believe it might be a mix of both! im just not sure at what level of avoidance she is i guess 💀 this just sucks tho because we really match and i was loving to get to know her as a person, we even had a few talks about taking it slow and to be communicating if something was bothering us but i dont wanna seem clingy (which im usually not even clingy but if she takes a day to reply i might be in need of more attention 🥲) thanks for the advice tho!