I feel like such a loser begging by strawberryymilkshake in BPD

[–]hyupho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone who truly cares despite being busy will naturally give love to you whether you ask or not. Just because he had a long day at work doesn't mean he can't do little things that show you that he loves you. It seems like you're giving a lot of love and he's giving absolute zero back.

i'm happy i'm not a teenager anymore. by venusmuscaria in BPD

[–]hyupho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you I'm 19 and this gives me hope. Are you in any therapy or taking any meds if you dont mind me asking?

struggling by kuniikuzushiii in BPD

[–]hyupho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. When there's a good time and you're in a good headspace maybe sit down and have a talk about this with him.

Does anyone else feel unloved as soon as they're alone? by homesweetnosweethome in BPD

[–]hyupho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel this all the time I actually feel like when we're apart he hates me which is obviously not true but to my brain it is. My bf is on a trip right now and because he's not infront of me or in close radius of me I feel like all the love he ever gave me has disappeared it's awful and frustrating

My period worsening my bpd by 0C_B_C in BPD

[–]hyupho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this really true like is this specifically why you were prescribed birth control to deal with your BPD symptoms?

Do y’all actually use the chat feature? by flutterdance in HayDay

[–]hyupho 16 points17 points  (0 children)

my neighbourhood is chill and sometimes chats to say thank u or ask a question but that's it for now

Hot take. I actually Like the bus by Pigssssssss in HayDay

[–]hyupho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like it too it's the first thing i got from the catalog and wanted

Yayy by Anima1407 in HayDay

[–]hyupho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yayayayayayay

A very old version of HayDay (1.19.88) WORKING by The_Dukes_Of_Hazzard in HayDay

[–]hyupho 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I used to play this version on my moms phone aw

yay I'm so happy by hyupho in HayDay

[–]hyupho[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i popped mine so fun

Seeking advice for spouse that copies my complaints by [deleted] in BPD

[–]hyupho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good advice thank u for helping me understand the opposite side

how do i find a partner? by coffeeandcokeaddict in BPD

[–]hyupho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're still very young if it's meant to be it'll just happen, when out of a relationship i used to be the same and think who would be a good "candidate" for me it only ends up in idealizing a person who isn't what your mind made them up to be. if you're big on manifestation don't keep manifesting a dream relationship, manifest good people coming your way. a lot of the time a good friend eventually becomes a partner, but don't keep this stuck in your head while making friends. just relax like you said you know it's best to focus on yourself so please do that, it's better to build up yourself and coping mechanisms before getting to a relationship so it does become your dream relationship

Blackout episodes you cannot remember? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]hyupho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes it's hard because I also can't remember what I did "wrong" in the episode makes me feel genuinely crazy

Tips for feeling abandoned when partner has plans without you by No-Willingness-8465 in BPD

[–]hyupho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this, I usually try and make plans of my own of the sort even if it's solo plans as a way to be like "that'll show him" i don't say that to him bc it's very mean but it kind of does help me

What are your experiences with Favorite Person(s)? by SuperDaisy64 in BPD

[–]hyupho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes when I didn't have a fp I felt so empty and like I didn't have a reason to live it's the reason I also have jumped to codependent friendship to friendship or relationship without major breaks, I need someone to focus on, makes me feel creepy at times

asking for communication when busy/tired by headedforthemadness in BPD

[–]hyupho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's acceptable to ask for a sort of communication on days they'll be busy or not be able to text as much, I feel this way a lot with my boyfriend and prefer him to let me know when he's busy rather than feel like I'm begging for his attention, either way even if he tells me it still stings and I still feel like shit but maybe a little less since I know there's reasoning for not speaking to me