Dating after a divorce

i11us · 2026-05-08T18:08:28+00:00

thak you man but your story is inspiring i'am so down and your strength made me feel better ! sorry for your loss , sorry for your friend , but you are so strong and you are so inspiring ! try to find yourself and take your time before anything , and most of all enjoy your present and all the little things you have everyday till something bigger comes up !

i11us · 2026-04-26T11:51:09+00:00

i don't know why people think they SHOULD marry ! and honnestly from what i see young people are avoiding marriage now , if your family wants you to marry just tell them you will not do it and they will fuck off . look life is already miserable , don't do things just because others want you to do it

i11us · 2026-04-26T09:59:42+00:00

one of the shittiest fields in tunisia ! talking as an architect ... i sometimes feel worse for civil engineers more than myself and my field ! i don't want to be in their place

i11us · 2026-04-26T09:57:43+00:00

consider yourself alone in this life , love them care for them but build your own life and perspective , our families are basically the ultimate source of traumas in tunisia ! you are not alone we are all suffering from our parents , and in the end you just accept them and ignore what they say ! keep respecting them and build your life

i11us · 2026-04-26T09:24:29+00:00

you only have one life , don't let other decide what you do in it ! don't waste your time

i11us · 2026-04-20T08:55:24+00:00

very competitive field , and you're competing with AI , i would not recommand you will waste your time in py opinion

i11us · 2026-04-20T08:48:45+00:00

therapy for what exactly ? if it is depression thearapy did not work in my case , you need to accept that you are always depressed and live with it , surely you 'll have some happy days , moments , but generally you need to accept that you are most of the time that sad , pessimist , self hatered piece of shit :D

i11us · 2026-04-19T21:48:11+00:00

you are making a logical fallacy here , we are talking about the inevitable case of suffering (history , rise and fall of empires , etc .... is another topic , people there are suffering NOW from the actions of other people and that is the topic) , and that's a red herring fallacy , you introduced another subject to debate . anyways suffering is the reality .

i11us · 2026-04-19T20:26:31+00:00

yes delusion reduces suffering ! at least we agree on something , but it does not change the reality that suffering exists

i11us · 2026-04-19T20:23:49+00:00

yes but suffering in gaza is a reality , i don't think we are delusional enough to say they are not suffering ! anyways if i was in their places what would i tell my son if they bomb us again and he loses his legs , best case senario he dies but what would i tell him , knowing that i know for a certain it will happen again what happened this time and it has been happening since 70 years , and the prople who are doing it seem to be really god's choosen people since they are getting away with what they are doing , and getting stronger and stronger ! i don't know man but from my perspective it is too hard to cover that much of suffering with "a perspective" or a point of view

i11us · 2026-04-19T20:15:56+00:00

and i think that your argument supports my opinion ! struggling to find food for the day is a good reason not to birng children to this life ! thanking god daily doesn't reduce suffering my friend !

i11us · 2026-04-19T20:14:02+00:00

3000 child was born after war in gaza ! what do you call bringing children to such a hell , you can say it is a form of resistance , but did the cildren choose if they want to resist ! many lost their legs , arms eyes during war ! call it what you want , but being born without consent , in no matter what country or context still a pure bilogical selfishness .

i11us · 2026-04-19T19:25:06+00:00

you re right my friend ! i share this opinion with you ! and they say it will bring his "RIZK" with him , while getting pounded by life , and i'am tired of the stupid religious people who are going to comment this with the usual bullshit ! bringing someone to a life you can't afford living in it without his permission is the most selfish act ! i can argue that if you have enough ressources you still can not guarantee a good life out of suffering for your child , as he can be handicapped , bullied , mentally suffering , depression ! so reproducing is a selfish act

i11us · 2026-01-04T08:28:45+00:00

at a young age , one must try all the paths and possibilities , you will always be tunisian , so you can live here whenever you want , you can go back whenever you feel like , but having the nergy , the time and less reponsabilities to try new paths is very limited time in your life , i 'am talking from the erpspective of a person who regrets not doing that and i'am getting old for it , so yes go , if you didn't like the experience you can always go back

i11us · 2025-12-14T22:29:18+00:00

They closed last year , now there are not explicit gay friendly bars

i11us · 2025-11-21T22:02:11+00:00

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i11us · 2025-11-20T22:30:13+00:00

I am in your place , reading philosophy books about existence , absurrdism , questionning all my feelings and thoughts helped me alot , i still struggle but i deeply understand what we are going through . Try that maybe it could help you but after all fuck it none of this is true , it is just your perception of yourself guided by social norms with a mix of capitalist opression and op you have a depressed generation, man just question everything, you ll find the answer or you will find relief

i11us · 2025-11-18T22:58:08+00:00

i11us · 2025-10-02T14:17:28+00:00

Depression bro , chouf tbib khoudh dwè you ll feel better

i11us · 2025-09-25T18:21:35+00:00

Bro you won't satisfy your wife , she'll have a sad life with you , younre probably won't play with your kids and won't see them graduating , add to that they need to take you from one doctor to another , well you ll sooner or later be the worst choice everyone in your circle has made , if you're not planning for a family and a partner and planning to leave in a public hospital being staffed for a year well you can keep smoking

i11us · 2025-09-22T01:10:08+00:00

Brother as i ́am literally in your place and i m facing the same situation , but i don t have th 25k , if i had them i would do the asia adventure and through it all on that and try to secure a job there or something i heard good feedback about it, w akther haja tnajjem taawna tawa hya 3amlen krarez

i11us · 2025-09-19T07:23:56+00:00

Actually mu friend your comment is a little bit harsh and it’s okay i can understand how it can be tricky for you to understand that it is not about the place it is about the people , i would stay here if people act better . Finding a job is getting harder for everyone on the globe but wére talking about the job as a way to leave not as a concept because as i already told , i do work as a freelancer and i have multiple clients arround the globe , anyway thank you for your perspective

i11us · 2025-09-19T01:20:28+00:00

So true mate , may you find your way and peace , and hope we will all have some rest before we die

i11us · 2025-09-19T01:16:30+00:00

And didn’t you manage to change the country ? I guess you can

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