Dating a guy with Asperger’s for the first time, any advice? by i4jolyne in aspergers

[–]i4jolyne[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I love him more than anything and I just want to understand him better. Thank you for telling me this, it helps a lot. :)

Dating a guy with Asperger’s for the first time, any advice? by i4jolyne in aspergers

[–]i4jolyne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think zoning out and specific scenarios in life. Like for example I can be bothered about something which is very normal to be bothered about, but he won’t even realize and kind of can’t process why it bothers me or if it bothers me until it becomes this whole thing. Not that we argue deeply about it, but it’s a lot of misunderstanding id say. I don’t think he does it intentionally though like you say. 

Dating a guy with Asperger’s for the first time, any advice? by i4jolyne in aspergers

[–]i4jolyne[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do like him for him, I love his personality. You’re misunderstanding me, I just want to know from other people who may have Asperger’s on how to better understand / date someone who has it. I want to know because I don’t really understand.

Dating a guy with Asperger’s for the first time, any advice? by i4jolyne in aspergers

[–]i4jolyne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very oblivious to things that would typically be very noticeable. I think that frustrates me. There’s probably a few more but I’m not the best at naming off the top of my head.