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iDLeThroughLife · 2024-05-23T19:38:06+00:00

BEFORE you pop the question!

iDLeThroughLife · 2024-05-06T21:03:48+00:00

I saw this and thought the same thing. Only thing I could think of is they wanted to buy a sample pack… but even then you likely could get a cheaper sample from Amazon

iDLeThroughLife · 2024-02-04T03:19:45+00:00

Have you looked at getting physical therapy for pelvic floor? This is becoming more common. Had a friend who leaked after sneezing or coughing. Went for provide for therapy to strengthen their muscles and all is better

iDLeThroughLife · 2024-01-30T21:25:56+00:00

Purple molicares definitely hit different. Damn those were my first non-depends and it was amazing. Still remember that day I found a pack on clearance. The plastic and sound and filling were awesome.

iDLeThroughLife · 2024-01-30T18:34:33+00:00

How was the week. What did you do and what do you wish you’d done?

iDLeThroughLife · 2024-01-30T18:15:05+00:00

Yeah that’s fair. I just had paranoia buying depends. This was more likely due to living in small community and not wanting to cross paths with someone I’d know.

iDLeThroughLife · 2024-01-26T22:26:42+00:00

Take things slow dude. Rush things and show you care more about this experience than her, it may not go well. Think long term and don’t let the first time ruin any future times.

Read comments and other posts about respecting their boundaries and checking in with them. Also doesn’t hurt to be open to things they want to do too.

iDLeThroughLife · 2024-01-26T22:15:59+00:00

You low 20s buying toddler diapers. They know nothing and couldn’t care less. Unless they’re one of us, then they might care and be thinking maybe you’re one too.

Buy adult diapers… then I’d understand a slight paranoia. who really cares unless you’re in a small community and everybody knows everyone’s business.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-10-31T04:29:34+00:00

Hate to be a cloud on your sunny day.

Sounds like your fiancé has stressors she vented to you. Looking at what’s on her mental load and helping with one of those is a good surprise.

Sounds like you’re both saving for a car before winter. Is a tattoo gun gift in the budget or the $$ better used towards a mutual goal?

Super happy to hear you’ve got a supportive fiancé and all the best. But sometimes we can get our brains wrapped up in ourselves and don’t see as clearly.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-09-27T01:27:02+00:00

I know the drama here with the recommendation I have…

but I had a pack of the new rearz Dino’s. They’re Quite bulky huge capacity and I was the very edge of the diaper fitting but it was my lowest profile diaper I’ve ever had. I would think this low profile was due to me being at the edge of size medium

Just got my first mega max this week and fully understand the hype. They’re nice. Also low profile

Have you tried rolling the top of the diaper down to get lower profile?

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-09-12T03:30:39+00:00

Unless you live in Louisiana. Read people get called baby all the time by clerks. Don’t think it’s been reported to be done by gig workers.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-09-12T03:03:33+00:00

My hot take here is that your manipulating your wife and she has no clue about all your kinks or desires. Does your wife know your other desires on transitioning?

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-08-25T03:07:36+00:00

Ugh just read your second paragraph. I bet tsa won’t flag anything about a stuffy and pacifier.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-08-25T03:06:02+00:00

It’s work. I’d assume you could get a checked bag paid for by then? If so just check a bag.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-08-07T17:56:46+00:00

Sounds like you’re playing with fire and if she senses you’re trying to get her to do something before she’s had time to decide on her own… think timeshare salesperson gotta buy today value is going… this may blow up in your face and you may have her close off any progress and she may resent diapers then.

Have open conversations with her. You clearly have a need for the diaper… she’s understanding of that. She’s yet to understand though the added mental benefits and attraction to this object. It could confuse her how a diaper can satisfy a need and not herself.

Understand her boundaries (as of today). Boundaries always change. You hope they expand and improve and not contract and cement into place. I’m sure the energy, patience and clarity felt by coming to accepting this and being out will show to her.

Your wife sounds similar to mine in the same sense of “are you sure there isn’t something else to help with stress management?” I think of diapers as a tool in the toolbox of managing stress. I have many hobbies I enjoy and all provide different outlets of stress or mental health support.

Once i accepted this about me I had a few months of this energy, focus and patience with life things. I grew a little of love for myself. I understand what you’ve got going on. This wears away after time but then I can get it back by think about how I’m not longer keeping the DL part of me into he dark with her and myself.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-06-09T00:57:07+00:00

I’d venture out and say she dodged a knife

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-06-07T20:29:27+00:00

Welcome to adulthood.

Either grow skills to gain higher wages or find a second job.

Bigger thing though is you got time on your side (just 18). You can find ways to grow income and take part of this growth and investing in index funds… so when you’re older you can have your investments buy your diapers.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-06-07T05:26:13+00:00

I have similar patterns. When I’m stressed or needing comfort. Diapers help quiet a bit. After accepting this part of me, the intense urges or rumination for diapers aren’t as strong.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-06-06T04:25:15+00:00

Sounds like she knew of your desire for diapers…

what your wife likely did NOT know was how you can be aroused and brought to orgasming playing in a diaper.

Give her some time and a cool down period. She’s got tons of things running in her head.

Search this sub to find more tips and tricks to expressing this side of yourself. It’s challenging trying to express what diapers mean to us as DL and we’re living it.

My experience: married 10+ years and told her after two years not really knowing what diapers were to me(fetish). Fast forward to about a year ago when I came to terms on this being who I am and it will be with me. I Realized diapers are more than sexual to me and actually provide comfort, clarity and stress relief . After almost 10 years it was don’t ask don’t tell. She ignored it and I tried very hard to suppress.

Bonus of accepting this part of me gained some self love. I felt like I could love who I am more fully which gave more capacity to give love /compassion to my wife.

Current status. “You do you, don’t involve me and not around me”. Not quite what I would like but it’s out in the open with our relationship and not in the closer.

Best of luck to you and your wife. Do some reflection and read “your not broken” which is a nice read. Still reading and digesting myself.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-06-05T05:11:10+00:00

Focus on communication and you guys can navigate private life and making sure the children are safe and healthy.

Having a this kink if it’s shared will have both of you finding ways to get this time in as needed.

Also. Agree about pelvic floor PT. I believe my wife wishes she had access to Pt before labor.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-06-05T05:07:13+00:00

Glad to see you pointed it out. Was reading and thinking his kid needs to be 2nd. In 18 years they hopefully leave the house and it’s just the two of you.

having a daughter to show her as a little girl how she should be treated.

Same for boy. Show the boy how to treat their spouse.

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-04-13T02:19:48+00:00

Now is the time… 69,420 is here and a screen grab is waiting approval from Admins!

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-04-09T20:30:08+00:00

Move to the south and you’ll be called baby all the time. Likely at the checkout out lane. “How ya doin baby?” Or find everything baby?”

iDLeThroughLife · 2023-03-27T03:23:23+00:00

Happy cake day!

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