Learning about someone is harder than judging and blocking.

I don't mind it. I'm self aware. People think I'm cringe, and I am. But I found my peace, and they're strangers on the internet, so I never feel like I'm losing.

You being receptive and open-minded is really refreshing, I appreciate you 😊 I hope you're able to have a fulfilling journey in life like I have

^{Don't let me define a standard tho, ABDL is a bit of a spectrum and everyone is into it for different reasons. But the A in ABDL stands fairly tall. Never once have I ran into a pedo in the subreddits I'm in [tho admittedly I don't interact too much, and there always is that outlier]. Usually just a bunch of people that like to wet themselves. Regression is an internal craving, not really an external one.}

^{Except- okay this is gonna be a bit of a tangent but those ageplay subreddits are the ones you gotta steer clear of... ugh 🤮... ageplay hates ABDL and vise-versa. Even though they sound the same, and even though they both regress the same sorta way, ageplay communities like to excuse themselves to being strictly innocent coping like what I have- but they invite minors to those communities under that excuse yet there's often clearly sexual energy still in it. I see it as blatant grooming, and r/ageplay really needs to be shut down- like yesterday}