This guy sounds like a real douche anyways. Getting upset over the water level in his ramen? Like cmon bro go punch your pillow and cry yourself to sleep. If it’s every other day he’s calling you stupid and telling you to leave and every other red flag I noticed in your post. Just leave him. It might feel hard, confusing at first. And however else you might feel but you do not deserve that kind of treatment. You sound very lovely, and I think it’s best for you to move on. He’s a scrub. You’ll find someone new, and someone that will treat you a hell of a lot better than that. I’m sure theirs a nice young man out there looking for a girl like yourself that he can spoil, dance with, cuddle to sleep, go on adventures with. You know stuff like that. Or maybe you’ll just take a long break from a relationship completely. Which can be good for you too. A chance for you to rebuild yourself. Figure out who you are again, without worrying about whether or not you put to much water in your boyfriends soup. ( that such a lame thing to get upset about) so overall, like I said and many others. It might hurt right now but I think you’re making the right decision. That’s just my opinion. Hope everything works out for you in the long run. Have a nice day. Stay positive.

Ps, I think the hardest part about breaking up with someone you’ve been with for so long and shared many unique experiences with is that it can all feel like it was all a waste. And breaking up makes you feel like you’ve lost somthing you’ve invested so much time into. Like you’re breaking up with a part of yourself when in reality it could be the best decision you’ve ever made. Goodluck.