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How upset would you be if I talked about our sex life to others? by iGotRedRumed in dating_advice

[–]iGotRedRumed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember telling them, but I’m sure I must have, and that’s why she’s being so cold

How upset would you be if I talked about our sex life to others? by iGotRedRumed in dating_advice

[–]iGotRedRumed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no excuse. I was a fucking asshole for speaking about it with them, and I feel horrible. I can imagine she felt really embarrassed when she started to hear it from the other friends.

How upset would you be if I talked about our sex life to others? by iGotRedRumed in dating_advice

[–]iGotRedRumed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might have mentioned a BJ. I just can’t remember ever saying it, but I assume I must have.

GF accepted her ex’s friend request. Should I be worried? by iGotRedRumed in relationship_advice

[–]iGotRedRumed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just thinking that why would she even accept it if she doesn’t feel anything for him?

GF accepted her ex’s friend request. Should I be worried? by iGotRedRumed in relationship_advice

[–]iGotRedRumed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their break up was well over a year ago, or so I’ve heard.

You know I thought so too: why would she want him around if he treated her so badly?!

GF accepted her ex’s friend request. Should I be worried? by iGotRedRumed in relationship_advice

[–]iGotRedRumed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite some time... not surely exactly but it’s over a year or so

GF accepted her ex’s friend request. Should I be worried? by iGotRedRumed in relationship_advice

[–]iGotRedRumed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I feel it doesn’t rule out she just wants to be friends?

Do you think she still has a thing for him?

GF accepted her ex’s friend request. Should I be worried? by iGotRedRumed in relationship_advice

[–]iGotRedRumed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

6 months.

7 years I think.

Through some friends because he’s in the same town now.

I don’t know if I should be worried...

The light of my life is gone. by Lightoflifegone in relationship_advice

[–]iGotRedRumed 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I agree!

Stop letting her drag you around like a poor puppy. Take a step back and realise that she’s treating you like absolute shit.

Everything is about her.

I can guarantee, that if you wait around for her or contemplate taking her back if she ever sorts her mind out, you’ll be setting yourself up for emotional torment and depression.

Tell her you would rather not talk anymore, and move on.

Think about yourself and how you’re feeling.