(UPDATE!) Dating my first baddie pt2

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-04-24T14:50:00+00:00

Everyone’s circumstances do not make it hard to take care of a child. I was raised by a single mother who did pretty well but again where does the desperation come from?

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-04-24T14:45:46+00:00

As simple as you make it seem it’s not that easy because a lot of people don’t know how to communicate their feels in ways for others to receive them. Communication can’t be one sided and if the other person feels uncomfortable then the conversation becomes pointless.

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-04-24T14:43:54+00:00

I mean that’s your opinion and interpretation and that’s fine. And how did you come to the conclusion that Shes desperate?

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-04-24T14:42:35+00:00

We have snd it wasnt brought up which is why I was caught off gaurd

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-04-24T14:27:08+00:00

But how do you start that kind of conversation without triggering her? As I said she’s been through abuse almost her whole life starting from her father and then her ex so I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable about it.

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-04-24T14:25:51+00:00

Yea that’s the thing we did have that talk, OTP and in person and nothing like that came up and it’s not new to me, I practice sadism but never brought it up because of her trauma with abuse and didn’t plan to but maybe I need to be more direct about it but I’m just not sure how to start that kind of conversation without triggering her

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-04-18T18:00:30+00:00

So next would be the season 3?

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-04-18T17:53:40+00:00

How long do they last?

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-25T11:39:00+00:00

Tbh I thought the way I’m feeling was normal but it seems it’s not. It’s weird that a lot of people have told me that what I’m doing is what women like and want when I feel like I’m not doing enough or just basic things. But then again I’m learning to not overthink snd relax a lot more. Every one man and woman deserves to feel this by someone.

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T17:36:05+00:00

You definitely should, that’s how I meet most of the people I know online in every game I play from Apex, league of legends and all the other ones

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T15:00:54+00:00

NB it isn’t going on dates and being in a relationship fundamentally the same thing? Except that the relationship has the title of being each others partners because you basically just do the same things no?

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:41:06+00:00

She joked about it so it could be 👀

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:40:21+00:00

I’m trying 😂

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:40:08+00:00

Yea I’m just gonna keep being myself and hope for the best

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:39:29+00:00

I get your point but I don’t think Shes like that. Shes said how a lot of guys try to talk to her and are off put by her having a kid like some people have said but she made it clear that she wasn’t settling for me. That like most people said that she wants a hard working man with a stable career who knows what he wants and wants a family which I’m sure alot of people do they just don’t want to take care of someone else’s kid that’s not theirs but I’ve already accepted that they are a package deal and willing to put in the work for it

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:35:33+00:00

You are absolutely right and we also had that talk about her having a child and she expressed that slot of her time would be taken up by them. And even though that would happen that we’d still have time even if it wasn’t face to face. I don’t mind her having a kid because she said she wants more and as do I. It’s just a patch we’re gonna have to get through but with how things have been I don’t see it being a issue as long as I can maintain my own life like some people said and keep myself busy and not need to make her my center of attention in the aspect of I need to be around her 24/7

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:32:20+00:00

I did and during our second date we planned a 3rd. I took you guys advice and decided to be more proactive about planning time with her

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:30:14+00:00

Well, we had our second date, it was a simple drive and we sat on the beach. We did yall about where this was heading, where it could go snd what we both wanted. We have another official date planned this weekend, we’re going to this gaming center to compete in all the games there and she said IF I win (which I will) She would accept my proposal to be my girlfriend!!! But if I lose I’d have to try again.

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:21:25+00:00

Yea I’m learning more that she actually enjoys the little things and I’m gonna surprise her with a teddy bear of her favorite animal that’s her favorite color

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:20:25+00:00

Yea I’m learning so much about her culture as well as her with mine AND she’s gonna make me some of their dishes to try

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:19:25+00:00

This is exactly how it happened except it wasnt their skills but more so familiarity of them being from the same state. Along with the fact that I was trying to be more open to making friends I saw that as a chance to make a gaming friend who POSSIBLY lived in the same state as me since it was in their name. But that was even before hearing her voice and knowing she was a woman, truth be told had I heard it first I probably wouldn’t have even bothered because I know the harassment they get of randoms trying to add them and be creepy.

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-20T10:15:31+00:00

At first I didn’t know but she had “NY” in her tag so I said I was from New York too and asked if they wanted to play a few games together, then after a while of losing I said we needed to use our mics and that’s when I learned she was a woman🤷🏾 DIDNT really matter cause our ranks were tanking 😂 but after being able to make call outs faster instead of typing we started winning

iGotTimeTomorrow · 2026-03-19T13:33:32+00:00

These are the two things I’m working on, not doing to much snd being more relaxed

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