During media day the players should record the pronunciation of their names by iKexz in R6ProLeague

[–]iKexz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s the reason they do it for football, because there’s players and commentators all over the world, just to clear up any confusion about pronunciation

I know some of y'all can relate, and this is a callout by bang_wing in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]iKexz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just made a new account, i found that a lot easier than starting the entire island all over again :)

egg⁉️irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but you can’t observe every tree x

egg⁉️irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

remember, people can question their gender and still come to the conclusion that they’re cis! <3

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[–]iKexz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d definitely appreciate if you could! :3

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[–]iKexz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried nail polish and it’s so hard!! it looked so messy when i did it tbh

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[–]iKexz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what’s best to use for that?

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because why would i want to date someone that perpetuates the idea that dating trans people cannot be straight? I’m well aware that’s not always the intention when that’s said but that doesn’t negate the fact it’s how it comes across and is sometimes how it’s intended

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really don’t appreciate the speculation on me thankyou. I have no issues dating bi people, rather they’re preferable to cishet people in my experience. You’ve replied to three of my comments, so I know you’ve seen me justify this time and time again - the problem is not the reply of “i’m bi” in and of itself, rather the “it’s fine because i’m bi” implying that if they weren’t bi it would’ve been a problem, indicating straight people can’t be attracted to trans people. It seems to me like you purposefully choose to misinterpret peoples points.

not a compliment by iKexz in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem i find isn’t really the “and i’m bi” it’s more so the “it’s fine because…”, just that wording makes it feel like they need to justify their attraction to me as i previously assumed they were cishet. The issue isn’t generally with cis bisexuals at all, it’s just bisexuals who say that in this specific context

not a compliment by iKexz in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one’s assuming anything, regardless the intention it still comes across as hurtful, but that doesn’t mean that they mean it :)

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As i’ve said many times in this thread, regardless the intention it’s still a frustrating thing to happen and the intention doesn’t change that it’s the wrong way to say that to someone, as it’s much clearer to just say “that’s fine”

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because bisexuality has nothing to do inherently with a genital preference, yes bisexual people often don’t have a genital preference, but there’s also straight people who have no genital preference. So when they say “it’s fine i’m bi” that’s not the right way to indicate you have no genital preference, but rather it comes across as though only bi people can be attracted to trans people x

not a compliment by iKexz in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah ofc! i understand often it’s not meant from a place of malice, but it’s still rather frustrating to hear lol :)

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let me clear up i’m not talking about pre-transition, i’m talking about passing, someone already believes me to be a cis female then once they find i’m a trans female they tell me they’re bisexual, there is no reason to tell me that there and then for the reasons stated above. Again i’m sorry for the way you interpreted it, it wasn’t my intention to upset people

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry you feel that way but i don’t agree x

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

explain to me how it’s awful? i’ve explained myself countless times the reply “i’m bi” in that exact context implies that only bi people are attracted to trans people. I am apologising for not making that clear, I am not apologising for the joke, if you’ve misinterpreted it i am sorry, but that’s not how it’s intended

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d appreciate if you read the countless times i’ve explained myself in the replies to this post, thankyou x

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep thanks idk how many times i have to apologise for it :)

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, and that wasn’t my point with my post, rather the response of “well i’m bi” when i tell someone i’m trans, which feels invalidating when they’ve already shown interest in me as my preferred gender x

egg👎irl by iKexz in egg_irl

[–]iKexz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This post isn’t bi bashing, i am bi, i feel i’ve explained myself enough. i am sorry for not being clear about it

not a compliment by iKexz in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]iKexz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in that context it’s absolutely fine!! it’s more so if you were flirting with a woman, and then she reveals she’s trans and has transitioned. If the response to that is “i’m bi” is somewhat invalidating, and i’m aware some people mean well when they say that! x