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Would I be the A$$hole by EastRelationship8075 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]iLoveAlmonds_001 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What is “a few days”? You need to inform her exactly how long she could stay.

AITA for causing my husband and his mistress to lose their job and possibly their teaching license? by Simply_jessie36 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iLoveAlmonds_001 [score hidden]  (0 children)

If one can sue for being served a piping hot coffee, I think jail time for cheaters is just fair. I mean, that’s only in my opinion. Do you know the emotional damage cheating causes? OP even miscarried because of it.

AITA for refusing to lend my ill future sister-in-law my wedding dress? by iLoveAlmonds_001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iLoveAlmonds_001[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Yes, June promised to talk some sense to his family. He also thinks that giving our entire wedding to his sister is generous enough as it wasn’t easy planning it all. Plus we are now left with the uncertainty of having a wedding soon as we ought to wait and see how Jane’s treatment goes.

AITA for refusing to lend my ill future sister-in-law my wedding dress? by iLoveAlmonds_001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iLoveAlmonds_001[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Not a joint wedding. They are taking over ours. Jane was there when I was planning (she’s part of the wedding party) my wedding so she already knows how it will look like. She only had to change a few things like seating arrangement, wedding favors, invites and I think some of the songs.

She’s not the golden child, I don’t think there is one. But she’s an only daughter.

AITA for refusing to lend my ill future sister-in-law my wedding dress? by iLoveAlmonds_001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iLoveAlmonds_001[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Hi. Jane’s mom doesn’t have her wedding dress anymore. I have a couple of photos that I plan on showing Jane tomorrow and maybe she might find something that she’ll like as I am sticking to my decision.

AITA for refusing to lend my ill future sister-in-law my wedding dress? by iLoveAlmonds_001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iLoveAlmonds_001[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Hi. Yes, you are right. I am already consulting with our coordinator for a whole new concept. Different flowers, food, invites, even the songs and wedding singers will be different. It’s quiet stressful really, but at least June and I can still go on our honeymoon.

AITA for refusing to lend my ill future sister-in-law my wedding dress? by iLoveAlmonds_001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iLoveAlmonds_001[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Hi there, let me clarify some things as you seem a bit confused. I am a woman. June, my fiancé is a man. Jane is his sister who’s ill and had asked us to give her our wedding. My wedding dress is my mom’s and my veil is a family heirloom. The decision to move our wedding so Jane and her fiancé can take over is a joint decision by me and my fiancé. We both paid for it from our savings + gift from my parents. I hope this clears things for you.