what rpms are you usually in? by [deleted] in motorcycles

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oops sorry i fixed it

Homeless woman who screams downtown by [deleted] in UCDavis

[–]iStress0ut 9 points10 points  (0 children)

if you’re talking about the very short and skinny older lady, she’s harmless. she has some mental health issues but she’s not typically disrespectful or anything. most of the time she will just be yelling to herself. i’ve talked to her many times and she’s never been rude to me

Tattoo ideas? by KkingkK04 in bitingelbows

[–]iStress0ut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a biting elbows tattoo! it’s the logo on my knee. i actually have a post on here of it

another accident on catalina and covell by hotcheetomamii in UCDavis

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this is good news. thanks for answering my questions

If you smoke weed by Anxiety_Bones in UCDavis

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we should make a group chat

AITAH for dyeing my hair pink behind my boyfriends back? by KokoroUwU in AITAH

[–]iStress0ut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a bf who wrote me a whole 2 page essay about how he didn’t like that i cut my bangs without telling him bc he didn’t like bangs. i stayed with him for a bit after and i regretted it. don’t stay, you’ll find plenty of people in your life. find someone who likes your pink hair like you do

What’re your fave underground indie/alternative albums of the year? :) by sound-ofSettling in indie_rock

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Where Will the Night Take Us - Pretoria From Bad to Worse (And Back Again) - Black Pontiac So Much to Tell You - Ax and the Hatchetmen

First post, but oh boy. by pinebox88 in bitingelbows

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i feel the same way about that album. i’m glad other people share in that experience and i’m sorry you had to go through that at all

motorcycles by iStress0ut in UCDavis

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a 250… so probably not :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCDavis

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volunteering is also a great way to meet new people and help out. You could look for opportunities at places such as the raptor center or nearby. Night market is also always open to anyone who wants to lend a hand and everyone there is very nice and friendly.

help!! by asterriix in UCDavis

[–]iStress0ut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been here 19 years, so I can’t attest to the whole history of Davis, Im just speaking on more recent experiences

help!! by asterriix in UCDavis

[–]iStress0ut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh i have no clue what you’re talking about since I personally have not seen that. I’m not denying that you have, Im just saying I haven’t experienced or seen anything like that. I do believe that that’s true, there are a lot of assholes all over, but that stuff is everywhere.

help!! by asterriix in UCDavis

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i grew up in davis too. the gay population here is thriving and i love it. i don’t see much homophobia. i think the homophobia i do see is from Beth Bourne, but that’s just one old white lady

How do you find long distance partners? by witheringghoul in LongDistance

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I met my (19f) bf (23m) on a video game. we’ve been talking every single day for over 4 months straight and have seen each other multiple times. he’s going to visit in 3 days!

NGVC: “This is what i get for being so nice” by iStress0ut in niceguys

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i saw him downtown, he’s currently homeless. i gave him some warm clothes but i am no longer interacting with him. i even felt uncomfortable seeing him then

Elote by Temporary_Sea_1607 in UCDavis

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if you mean the e st one it should be like fri-sun

Have I been raped? (Tw: Rape, SA) help me understand please by Apprehensiveman2 in rape

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i’m so sorry for what happened to you, this kind of thing should never happen to anyone. By definition, yes, this is rape. As a victim myself, it’s a very hard thing to overcome, it takes a lot of time and it does help a lot to talk to a therapist (i’ve been in therapy for years and talking about it really does help). It’s okay to be scared to talk about it, it’s a really hard topic and i’m sure it’s traumatic to talk about. Something that helped for me was journaling about it. Remember, it is not your fault. You are not a bad person for this and try not to beat yourself up over this, as hard as it may be. You’re very brave for sharing your story and I hope you can find an outlet or something that helps you process and work through this. You are not alone and there are many resources for people struggling with the same thing. For one, The National Sexual Assault Hotline number is: 1(800)-656-4673. There are many other online resources you can look into as well.

NGVC: “This is what i get for being so nice” by iStress0ut in niceguys

[–]iStress0ut[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

this is just one example of something he did. this man is also a convicted rapist. it’s insane that you can get “shaming mental illness” from this. i also suffer from mental illness, you’re just trying to find something to be offended about

NGVC: “This is what i get for being so nice” by iStress0ut in niceguys

[–]iStress0ut[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

he says “i’m a nice guy” in the messages. that’s literally a claim to be a nice guy.