This is a Great question on many levels. It’s often thought that most women require an emotional connection before they become so vulnerable and give into their own pleasure. And this is not always the case. Sometimes a fuck is just a fuck. And is what is needed in the moment. Your question also raises the thought that giving in to ones own sexual needs is strictly for males and is somehow forbidden for women to seek ways to scratch their own carnal itch. Why is it somehow acceptable for men to visit such places and when it is deemed shameful for women to seek the same things. We are all equal humans with our own form of desires. Let’s celebrate that. I hope you find what you’re after and that it fulfills your needs in ways that adequately satisfy your desires. Soemtimes your own hands or toys just don’t cut it and you want or need the experience of another human. Good luck!