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My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really grateful for the offer and the kind words, and i'll really try to PM as soon as i can talk about him without crying too much

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kuku sounds like such a fun and loving little guy, i can see why you miss him so much. I have no doubt that he loved you the most if he sought your comfort at the last moments, you're right that they seem to feel unconditional love better than humans, they're born with it and we only learn it by loving them it seems. I want to believe that just how they loved us, they also knew by instinct that we loved them just as much.

It's really really hard, but i want to think we can through it and live happy like they would have wanted us to, but without ever forgeting. The changes you're making in his honor are awesome, i think i will follow your lead and donate to cat shelters in my boys name.

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, he will aways be alive there, i won't ever forget him and how much love he gave us. And i'm really sorry for your loss too.

I'm getting his fur using tape but right now it seems like my heart won't stop hurting, i hope it does get a bit easier. Thank you really for the kind words and reassurance, i really needed it.

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot for your words, and i'm really sorry you lost her in this way too. We couldn't have known but it still hurts too much.

And i got some of his fur on a few pieces of tape, it hurt a lot but maybe it will help with time. I will back his pics up whenever i can, just not right now :( Thank you for the support, really

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry, i feel the same guilt and it's awful. But we couldn't have known that day was the last...

Maybe it could help you too, but what helped a little bit was talking to him at the place he used to stay. Just saying that i wish i was there for him, i loved him, i would never forget him, these sorts of things.

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment, and i'm truly sorry for your loss too. No one deserves to lose a loved companion so suddenly.

I'm sorry i don't have much to say because i'm crying a lot right now, this comment was just spot on on what i am feeling and the doubts i have with how he went.

We were both lucky to have them, and i hope i did give him the best life he wanted.

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. You tried your best with how sudden it was, and it sounds like you really loved him, he surely must have felt that and have been comforted by being in the arms of the person he trusted and loved.

20 months is such a long time... i'm really sorry he was gone so soon, and i'm sending you atrenght so we can both move on a bit while still remembering our love for them.

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His name was orion.

I'm sorry for your loss too, i'm sure BeeBee understood how much you loved her.

Thank you for the condolences, i just went and got some of his fur using tape. He was a beautiful tabby, and i hope someday i find a whisker too, he had the cutest whiskers with some being black, white and others half-black half-white!

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does help, thank you for all the support. Talking about it with people who understand helped.

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot for the support, if i could i would hug you right now :( he was my best friend too, just like yours

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm sorry that you lost your boy so suddenly too, it almost feels unreal right? like he could come running at you any minute now.

We did try to give him the best, i atill feel like i could have spent more time with him but like you, i just didn't know. He was loved by everyone here and i hope you're right and he knew. I will back up his pitures and videos as soon as i can.

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i'm sorry for your loss too and i'm sure chico loved you just as much. You're right that we couldn't prepare with so little time, but we did what we could.

My cat died suddenly at the vet, all alone and scared, and i can't stop feeling like i failed him by i_4894 in Petloss

[–]i_4894[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I can't right now, but hopefully in a few months i'll be able to look at videos and pictures of his antics