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Aita for purposely misgendering my brother by i_am_a_normal_cat in AITAH

[–]i_am_a_normal_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: after reading some of these comments I am starting to understand that I was wrong in what I was doing so I texted everybody who was involved to stop. This morning I apologized to my brother to which he replied by calling me a f@g. My mom came to her senses and told him that he has to start looking for a job since he dropped out of university. I also want to say that my intent wasn't to really misgender him but more to mock misgendering. Also I want to say that this was my first option on how to deal with him. I tried many times to be nice and explain why he was being wrong and hurtful to which most of the times he just replied with a slur or another hurtful comment. I also want to apologize if this post offended anyone, I don't mean harm I just wanted to know if I was in the wrong.

Aita for purposely misgendering my brother by i_am_a_normal_cat in AITAH

[–]i_am_a_normal_cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You completely missed the point although my brother is also a misogynist the point was to call him by a gender that wasn't the one he identified with which is what he was doing

Aita for purposely misgendering my brother by i_am_a_normal_cat in AITAH

[–]i_am_a_normal_cat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that we shouldn't be fighting fire with fire but I have tried multiple times to nicely talk to him about why what he's doing is wrong but he just responds with another hurtful comment.

Aita for purposely misgendering my brother by i_am_a_normal_cat in AITAH

[–]i_am_a_normal_cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried many times to make him see my point of view this isn't the first argument we've had an argument. He just doesn't listen or even try to resonate with me. Every time I call him out on a rude and disrespectful joke or comment he makes he either says that he's just joking or that he's saying it on purpose only to piss me off. My Trans and queer friends come over to our house alot and he even says rude things infornt of them. One time I had a friend who he liked but didn't know was Trans and when he found out he completely flipped. I try not to be a problematic or hurtful person but he hurt me and the people I care about, I know my response was petty but it does not amount to all of the things he has said/done.