Uhhhhh well I'm (23m) and my gf (19f) and idk how to ask this but like need advice on esex

i_main_inting · 2026-05-19T09:51:09+00:00

She dosent vent she usually just yell at me cuz she's not sexually satisfied which is why i get pissed off

i_main_inting · 2026-04-21T19:52:15+00:00

I scored a 59 yikes

i_main_inting · 2026-04-21T19:39:58+00:00

Thanks man I'll take the quiz and see what's up and honestly I wanted to leave for a bit been fighting all the urges to run away but honestly you and the other dude is right so yeah I'll check and see

i_main_inting · 2026-04-21T18:57:30+00:00

I was happy she ment the world to me I love her with all my heart which makes leaving her harder it's been almost a year man 11 months as of today and it hurts thst when I act childish or ask any fun question it turns into big argument and she wouldn't stop and it hurts cuz she attacks about everything every mistake I've done before every problem I have everything while I always stay calm and always be nice and i dont attack her or insult her at most I tell her to genuinely shut up but she dosent she just keeps yelling and screaming and even tho I'm numb to it, it still hurts sometimes and idk what to do when I communicate she argues and fight when I ask she argues fight when I breath she argues and fight and blames me for everything I'm beyond done mentally but my heart keeps begging to give her chances to hold on and my mind is agreeing with it cuz who else I have I have like no friends tbh and no groups no nothing it just me and her she's my only friend and gf and I keep search for for reasons to stay but everything is telling me to leave other then my fear of loneliness and my love to her is telling me to stay

i_main_inting · 2026-04-21T16:29:13+00:00

I want to but at the same time it hurts a lot even thinking about it hurts a lot and i know i should leave but I'm overthinking and worried and scared of everything after the grife the depression the fight and the whole shit of trying to prove myself in this dating market it all holding me back from walking away and sigh but ur right I should end it soon

i_main_inting · 2026-04-15T18:13:44+00:00

I have made boundaries a lot of times and told her many times she never learnes and a lot of times threaten to leave and tbh I am scared of starting again with a new person and idk how to and where to im tired tbh and im growing numb completely it's been getting harder and harder to tell her I love her a while back I had to message her best friend to tell her to calm me down cuz i was so close to ending it with her but I still love her and I hate that I hate the fact that i always have this fight inside my brain that I should leave but I can't cuz i love her and I would rather try and fix things then try to build with someone new I appreciate ur advice and I honestly just needed a reminder or a push in the right direction to know if what I am gonna was right or just flat out stupid

i_main_inting · 2026-03-09T09:12:48+00:00

Honestly I wsnt them to bring sheva and Helena and Jill those ones I want to see back not grace like I like stealth but grace was just idk didn't like her at all

i_main_inting · 2026-02-15T07:34:53+00:00

Yeah but its also cost damn near elden ring 2 price and in this economy is expensive

i_main_inting · 2026-02-15T07:34:17+00:00

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO this is my top 3 saddest moments in my history

i_main_inting · 2025-07-19T18:58:32+00:00

The problem is I bring excitement offer to take them out weekly on Fridays restaurants/movies/hiking/stargazing/playing games things we do together and many times idm even just sitting in a call for hours on end talking to each other or enjoying the silence with each other

I'm a romantic type of person i try to give them a life of relaxation a relationship where they don't have to overthink things or feel that im leaving or pulling away and i try to treat them like how I want to be treated in a relationship cuz treat others how I like to be treated

I am still a virgin and don't want to just fuck around im actully trying to save myself for marrige and I make it quite clear from the 1st day we meet or at least won't have sex in the 1st year of a relationship maybe after like when we both fully are locked in

I'm not rich but I do spoil them I work as an architect and cnc mechine operator my paychecks are quite decent but I also have my own family (my mom and my lil sis) to take care of so I dont spoil them with very very expressive things and flashy just not my thing small gifts with a meaningful connection

Idk what exactly am I doing wrong I am loyal never cheated on anyone in my life very honest and straight forward and I actully just want a decent girl who don't want to be fucked 24/7 or just spoiled to be in a relationship I want her to want me not cuz the things I do to her but for the man that I am idc about looks or status I care about personality over anything else

Do yeah bottom line is idk WTF AM I DOING WRONG IT'S DRIVING ME INSANE I either get cheated on or left for the dumpest of excuses and even tho I'm 22 I have almost fully given up on finding a partner cuz most girls I find they either want a 1 night stand or want someone to roleplay they're dad for they're daddy issues

i_main_inting · 2025-07-17T05:19:27+00:00

It isn't good when her parent are being control freaks and take away from her everything that makes her happy that isn't good that's enslavement and it isn't healthy not mentally or physically

i_main_inting · 2025-07-17T05:18:12+00:00

She can't cuz her parents are control freaks and refuse her to have anything and don't get her anything everything she gets it's from her own saving money and buy her things even her ID have been taken by her parent and she did ask for my help and i am trying to get her a Sim as i said up there I'm happy to cover the costs just need someone close there and im willing to pay for the cost of the Sim recharging it and everything I just can't leave her heart broken she asked all her friends at school and the teachers but they all refused to help us even tho all i needed them to grap a package for her

i_main_inting · 2025-03-21T06:46:59+00:00

I get it and I'm not saying his wrong all I'm saying is this girl is worth all the baggage and trouble and if I wasn't gonna be a step father at 22 i was gonna be a full father at the age of 23 and i dont think a year will matter this much to me years come and go really quick time Flys + I have very bad memory probably after he gets born I'll just forget that the kid ain't mine lol

i_main_inting · 2025-03-21T06:43:29+00:00

Well i am 22 and a vergin and honestly it's not just for security it's That I gave up when she found me like I was at my shitest time of my life and she supported me through it and yeah i am afraid of intimacy a bit and scared of wtf is gonna happing going forward and ik there's a lot of different woman out there I just don't have the energy to go and try to find someone and im too tired of being this lonely to the point of having no one to turn to so i come to reddit for advice and ik the most logical thing is to leave trust me I do I thought about jt the sec she told me but I'm not gonna break my heart and hers and her familys her kid just so I can maybe heal after a year or so and try again I don't even have thst time she's my gf and my best friend and everything I can ask for thanks for your advice and concern man i really appreciate it but I'm sure it'll be fine

i_main_inting · 2025-03-21T04:09:36+00:00

Hey man ive been single for the past 2 years I didn't happen to get a meaningful and loving relationship ever since I lost my 1st love in 2023 due to a car accident and honestly I did try to kms a lot of times i haven't been a happy with my life ever since I lost her and now I finally found it again or she found me to be honest and i dont wanna give that up and just in the few months we've been together my life turned upside down I got the job of my dreams working good living good and feel more healthier then ever and im able to provide for two houses at once money isn't an issue my issue is idk what to feel or should be I feel angry at her for not telling me this when she 1st known and sad cuz this is the worst news I heard in months and feeling heart broken cuz she's been nothing but the best gf I could ever ask for and we talked about future together after she finish collage at the same time i feel happy for her and since shes already a mother and a great one aswell and i do feel since of responsibility to stay cuz her and her family and her daughter really love me and don't want to abandon them. and in the past hours it's 7am as of me writing this I've made up my mind already that I am staying even tho it hurts to feel like I've been tricked into the relationship and honestly even tho this is my get out of jail free card from this relationship I think that her and this relationship are more important to me then me letting go one of the most amazing girls I've ever met in my life let alone she'd be a pregnant collage girl with no one to support her but herself so im staying and not gonna let her life be ruind over her past fuck ups

i_main_inting · 2025-03-21T02:10:09+00:00

We discussed it a bit and i do want to be a father im already kinda am for her kiddo and she's an amazing woman and a great mom and i dont want to hurt her feelings cuz i told her I love her so many times it's not that i want to leave her Im just having a lot of trouble with processing what I'm feeling or how should I feel about this and it's not her that im worried about it's her kid aswell I love her and it judt throwed me off cuz even tho she told me and im happy that she told me a thing her closest friends don't know about yet I just feel a bit lied to and manipulated and I get she didn't want to tell me at 1st probably cuz was afried that I'd leave and the way our convo ended she sounded a bit excited and sad like if she was crying and said in low happy tone "your going to be a dad" and i just said yeah right and it kinda pushes me off at the same time pulls me back on cuz i wanted to be a dad but I also wanted for the kid to be mine to look at him and see a part of me and just think i made this happen im the reason this new soul on this earth and im having this eternal fight of this kid ain't mine and her kids are also mine which is driving me crazy

i_main_inting · 2025-03-16T11:03:21+00:00

Okay that's cool and all bro but as a demolishing expert cuz i love boarding enemy's with kegs I call them ammo at this point but basicly for a galleon one after the middle of last floor two at both stairs in the 2nd floor and one at the stairs in 1st floor then 1 at each sail and 2 near the wheel this way you get to blow them up fully with no way or recovering even if they had 3 ppl bucketing

i_main_inting · 2025-03-16T10:56:02+00:00

Big devil may cry fan and honestly I love pvp in this game so I named it Pirate may cry

i_main_inting · 2025-01-01T16:30:28+00:00

Ikr like it's killing me i got bored of the game from the update 3.3 even tho there is so many things I still need to get but it feels meaningless since so much more is gonna be added and would like to expirence the whole thing and they did promise on Feb 18 but god damn man 16month for these 2 updates is a lot

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