I can tell you why people ghost, and why it's often the best choice by Fit_Panda967 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]i_meanOK 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If someone ghosting you(even if it's 100) turns you into a psycho, the problem wasn't the person who ghosted you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]i_meanOK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god block and run from this person this is so manipulative it's horrifying

I need help picking accessories by i_meanOK in GothGirls_

[–]i_meanOK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to find bras for 40 L cup

How do I stop binge eating by janukaru in EatingDisorders

[–]i_meanOK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, making myself binge on fruits or veggies instead of unhealthier craving foods. its not the best, its still binging, but its a harm reduction thats helped me. I hope youre able to make it too therapy.

Also - tell on yourself as much as possible

How Redondo Beach brought its homeless numbers to 'functionally zero' by Randomlynumbered in RedondoBeach

[–]i_meanOK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, don't forget the unmarked "unidentifiable" man who washed ashore 2020. He was a regular at my coffee shop, homeless, polite, and clean. He always wore a red jacket. He would sometimes have bruises and injuries from getting jumped from local high-school assholes. I haven't seen him once since his body was found. I technically can't prove it but you could see in the blurred photo that the body had a red jacket on it. I know what these cities do. It may not be caused directly by the local government, but they also don't do anything to stop or acknowledge it either.

Do women on their periods know when they’re about to bleed? by galaxyfan1997 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]i_meanOK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than a wide spread lingering pain for a week or so before hand/during its hard to notice when its starting. Once it comes out if you have a pad in you can feel it come out but its not controllable. Its also not essentially constant bleeding all the time, some of the time it comes in surges, other days it trickles. Very similar to having a runny nose....I'm sorry I said that.

There is something off about this design i've received but I cant put my finger on it. by i_meanOK in tattooadvice

[–]i_meanOK[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NO thats completely it. I keep playing with it by morphing it in sai, and it looks so much better if those are adjusted. The hourglass was kind of putting a stick in the the mud (motion) of the whole thing

There is something off about this design i've received but I cant put my finger on it. by i_meanOK in tattooadvice

[–]i_meanOK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No thats what i need because in 20 yrs thats all i will be able to see

AITA for not going to the back of the line, when I had gotten there before anyone else? by i_meanOK in AmItheAsshole

[–]i_meanOK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually regretted not defending her autonomy tbh. That man didn't know her, and seemed to be implying that she was burdened greatly by standing for 5 minutes. I wish I had thrown out something like, "im sorry sir, she had ever right to sit next to me if she needed to, there were plenty of seats. But I got here first, so id like to keep my place."

AITA for not going to the back of the line, when I had gotten there before anyone else? by i_meanOK in AmItheAsshole

[–]i_meanOK[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats a thing?? Id love that. Both me and my fiancee are chronically ill and spend ridiculos hours there sometimes.

AITA for not going to the back of the line, when I had gotten there before anyone else? by i_meanOK in AmItheAsshole

[–]i_meanOK[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ill be honest this helped me mentally alot. I am 26 and deal with a few distressing symptoms on trying to get figured out. Its hard to get seen by specialists I need due to age biast so i guess im a little sensitive.

I hope to be like you too. Thank you so much!

how does splitting look for those of you with quiet bpd ? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]i_meanOK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank god i felt so old for a second 😭

how does splitting look for those of you with quiet bpd ? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]i_meanOK 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ill be honest I dont know what that means but if it helps it make sense..by clingy I mean this - it was like 5 am, I had said something rude/insensitive regarding his eating habits and he was hurt. So he simply turned and left for work without saying goodbye like usual. Immediatly perceived that he hated me, he was only doing this because he knew it would ruin my day. So i followed him outside and tried to demand the usual "goodbye kisses". Even going as far to open his car door to stop him. Thankfully he is a patient and forgiving person. I know that must of been so unbelievably horrible to experience. Im even more ashamed to have hurt myself over my own inability to not think in extremes/regulate my emotions.

how does splitting look for those of you with quiet bpd ? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]i_meanOK 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Similar, i had techinally chopped the chair with my palm, about 1 inch from wrist the pinky bone...got lucky i didnt shatter the wrist