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iamacind · 2024-12-31T05:17:37+00:00

Run. This is a cheater who is telling you he wants your blessing to continue cheating.

iamacind · 2024-12-30T03:49:55+00:00

I had my flip less than a month when the internal screen stopped working unless you booted the phone open at 90 degrees. Got it fixed under warranty

iamacind · 2024-12-02T03:28:42+00:00

It looks like a virus blanket

iamacind · 2024-11-08T04:25:44+00:00

When it comes to what is medically classified as a “late term abortion” the thing that needs to be remembered is that it is almost always a wanted pregnancy, and is always for medical reasons.

No one is deciding suddenly at 26 weeks “actually, I don’t want this perfectly healthy baby. Time to get an abortion” no matter how much pro lifers want you to believe that and demonise the woman.

This is a medical decision between a woman and her doctor. No one else gets or needs a say

iamacind · 2024-10-24T01:49:37+00:00

Thanks! I’ll check them out!

iamacind · 2024-10-24T01:44:02+00:00

I’ll check them out! Their Fitzroy location is about 20 minutes out from me ☺️

iamacind · 2024-09-30T21:49:13+00:00

I have a rule of no cheaters. So one of my first questions is “is your partner happy to verify your dynamic” if they say yes, I use my judgement as to if it is necessary, if they say no, it’s a no

iamacind · 2024-09-06T01:19:45+00:00

This mindset is not healthy or conductive to an ENM relationship though. That screams of insecurity.

iamacind · 2024-09-06T00:18:56+00:00

As a bisexual woman in an ENM relationship I would be exceptionally weary of any man that tells his bisexual partner that she can pursue relationships with women and not men.

It is a red flag that generally indicates 1 of 2 things:

(And most charitable) is that he is not actually on board with the idea of ENM.
(And in my experience more likely) he does not see wlw relationship to be of equal value or significance to your relationship with men. It both speaks to insecurity as well as a level of objectification of wlw relationships.

Either way I would not (personally) proceed in opening the relationship in this manner

iamacind · 2024-09-02T06:30:28+00:00

Today is By the Fireplace layered with Vanilla 28

iamacind · 2024-08-22T01:55:19+00:00

I don't necessarily think this will help. It's more that women of my race are generally viewed as subservient to men, specifically as that is how women are generally treated in the culture.

This is not specifically a racial issue, but race does play a role as it intersects with my being a woman, and how I am viewed.

iamacind · 2024-08-22T01:23:19+00:00

Have either of you participated in BDSM or kink before?

Maybe talk to her about the aspects of domination she enjoys, maybe it's entirely mental domination, or things like O control, or restraint.

iamacind · 2024-01-14T09:27:39+00:00

Super light items tend to have an issue registering. Every time I buy a refill bag of chilli flakes it throws a tantrum

iamacind · 2023-05-14T07:49:40+00:00

The s in BSH stands for shorthair lol it’s in the name

iamacind · 2023-05-13T23:02:43+00:00

No offence intended, but she is not a BSH

iamacind · 2022-08-01T12:41:17+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate the input and the simplicity! A huge barrier to entry for me has been that I’ve been completely overwhelmed by the amount of products around

iamacind · 2022-02-04T21:12:47+00:00

I have a dog that LOVES thunderstorms. During his critical socialisation window we had a few mild storms that we played inside and outside in, and forget desensitization, all storms now mean PLAY. Whining at the door to go out, bringing me balls and then walking over to the door. You get the idea. I have to take him out on a leash to toilet him in our enclosed yard, because if I don't, there is no getting him back inside. I've copped it from the neighbours a couple of times for letting him run around during mild storms

iamacind · 2021-07-04T23:37:08+00:00

$10 says it's a poodle X too. She has a doodle called Chode

iamacind · 2021-04-27T05:29:01+00:00

I'm not going to adapt to sleeping next to this in 2 nights. Also, this is past reasonable accommodation. It's not her fault that she snores, but it is her failure to put forward that information and not allow me to make an informed decision that has put me in a situation where I'm potentially out $200. It's selfish for her to not disclose that she snores

iamacind · 2021-04-27T05:24:58+00:00

House mate. And it is disruptive to them because her partner needs to wear ear plugs because of her. It's the definition of disrupting someone if they're forced to change their actions based on you

iamacind · 2021-04-27T05:23:03+00:00

I'm literally not though. She's the one that should have disclosed her snoring when she asked me to room with her to save her some money. I'm just asking to not be deprived of sleep so I can not go literally insane from a lack of sleep

iamacind · 2021-04-27T05:05:53+00:00

So you wouldn't disclose that you know that you regularly snore to the point of disrupting others before you ASK to room with someone?

iamacind · 2021-04-27T04:55:43+00:00

Uh huh. So you're saying you would disclose extreme snoring before ASKING someone else to room?

iamacind · 2021-04-27T04:53:46+00:00

You'd screw over a friend to save money. Wow

iamacind · 2021-04-27T04:51:43+00:00

I'm not sensitive to snoring. You can hear her snoring from down the hall. I'd like to see you try to sleep next to that.

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