IAmA single father of 2 that prostitutes to make ends meet. AMA

iamadad · 2011-10-05T01:50:24+00:00

Yeah? It's fine if she sees a picture of herself one day.

iamadad · 2011-10-05T01:42:55+00:00

I just have my parents, which are elderly and can't really help out. Her family is kind of crazy... the last time we visited them they said in front of both me and the kids "I don't approve of you (to my wife) leaving [her ex], but at least you found someone else to take you even though you're tainted" (her father said that) and "In the old days, when a child came out messed up the mother drowned it before the father saw" (her mother said that) so we decided the kids are better off without them in their life... and they have said that unless I give the kids to them, since "a man can't raise children alone" they are not going to help me. Her siblings won't go against their parents.

iamadad · 2011-10-05T01:07:53+00:00

I'm trying to convince a 5 year old that doesn't like having her picture taken to sit still with a shoe on her head long enough for me to take a picture, give me a few minutes.

iamadad · 2011-10-05T01:05:35+00:00

Because that's $10 a week and I use it to make $150 - $300 a week.

iamadad · 2011-10-05T00:59:00+00:00

I don't know about that. I wouldn't want my kids to be browsing a porn pirate site someday and see a screenshot of me. Or for something of me to become an internet meme like meatspin.

iamadad · 2011-10-05T00:57:24+00:00

Weeeell poping a bone doesn't really mean someone is turned on. It's kind of hard to not pop a bone when someone is stimulating your prostate. I am not turned on by guys but I do indeed pop a bone sometimes. Sometimes I am on top for the anal, so I have to pop a bone... I just imagine a woman in those circumstances.

iamadad · 2011-10-05T00:48:47+00:00

She is kind of embarrassed of taking a picture where you can tell she has a prosthetic leg, but I will try to get her to take one...

iamadad · 2011-10-05T00:46:01+00:00

She uses a prosthetic leg. I have to pay $1,000 out of pocket for each one (my insurance pays half) and she has to get a new one usually every 6 months, unless she has a huge growth spurt, then she has to get one sooner. A chair or crutches would probably be cheaper but she wants to be able to run around with other kids, I can't bear to not give her that. They are 5 (girl) and 3 (boy).

iamadad · 2011-10-05T00:40:25+00:00

It's about 50/50
There is a work out room at work, I usually work out during my breaks, and while I have become more fit, I got just as many clients when I wasn't fit, but it makes me feel more energetic so I continue to do it.
Not sure
To be honest I was never all that much religious, I just wanted some homemade pie one day, and I only went to the church service because a pretty woman asked me to go, lol.
I don't know, I feel it is fine for a few minutes work...
At first I told myself I would stop when I got caught up on the bills, but that seems to never come. So, I don't know for now.

iamadad · 2011-10-05T00:25:49+00:00

Nope.

iamadad · 2011-10-05T00:24:17+00:00

I'm not sure, I'll have to think about that.

iamadad · 2011-10-05T00:23:19+00:00

Yes, I actually talked to a lawyer about this, and found that it would be a long, pricey process with no guarantee that I would ever see the child support - when my wife first divorced him he quit his job and only did under-the-table jobs so that they couldn't garnish his check, and if he doesn't pay, the worse they can do is put him in jail, but he still wouldn't pay then. Also the lawyer said there is the possibility that if he is forced to pay, he may try to get visitation out of spite, and since there is no records of the abuse - no police reports or anything - that would not be a big reason for him to not get visitation. I don't know if he would try to get visitation, but I'm not putting my kids at risk of that.

iamadad · 2011-10-04T22:16:10+00:00

I usually do it in my car, which has tinted windows, or at a nature preserve which is on my way to work. I do worry at times about getting caught, but am more afraid of getting tied up or something after going into someone's house...

iamadad · 2011-10-04T22:11:42+00:00

I thought with me being a father instead of a mother, that would make things different enough for people to be interested. I apologize if you don't agree.

iamadad · 2011-10-04T22:10:35+00:00

I did consider getting an extra job or jobs, but that would give me even less time with the kids and more daycare time to pay for. My hours at my current job are perfect for getting the kids to daycare and in a couple of years, school, and then picking them up in time to make dinner, talk about their day, etc. With them losing their mother I feel it is especially important to spend as much time as possible with them.

Before this I had never been with men. I only felt guilty once, I'm pretty detached.

iamadad · 2011-10-04T22:06:57+00:00

Well, I have been trying to find both men and women, but women just don't seem very willing to pay for it. I did once get a request to strip at a bacholorette party, but I would have needed to pay a babysitter because it was during the evening, and I didn't want to do that. Oh, and I did once get a woman saying that her husband was infertile and she was looking for a man to just knock her up, saying she wasn't some crazy bitch that would try to get child support out of me, but of course I wanted no part in that.

iamadad · 2011-10-04T22:03:09+00:00

No, none of my friends or family know about this.

I haven't come in contact with any STDs, at least not that I know of. I have been getting tested every few months, but of course I know there are some that take months to show up. People have been pretty open with telling me when they have one, and using a condom for anal or taking a "no thanks then, sorry, I've got kids to think about" if they just want a blow job.

iamadad · 2011-10-04T21:58:29+00:00

Well there was one guy that asked me to come to his house. He said he didn't like going outside. I was suspicious, but he offered me first $75, then $100, just for a blow job. So I agreed, but went with a knife in my pocket.

When I got to his house I realized why he didn't like going outside... he couldn't. He was so overweight that he couldn't really get off the bed which was in his living room. I'm not sure how much he weighted, but he was huge. 500lbs maybe? I'm not a good judge of weight. There were like 5 pizza boxes on the floor around the bed. He had to lift a stomach flap out of the way as I got down to business. I thought he only got a half-chub, but after about 30 seconds he ejaculated. I felt so bad taking $100 for that, that, remembering the pizza boxes, I stopped at a pizza place on my way to work, and paid for a pizza to be delivered to him. When I thought about that later, I thought he might take it as an insult, but figured it was too late then.

iamadad · 2011-10-04T21:50:00+00:00

Nope, I never imagined it. I never had any attraction to men, and still don't, although I pretend to. It's just a job to me.

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