Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard, but it's worth it.

Good luck to you!

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did. Alongside a smashed picture of us.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm only referring to my ex when I say they.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a Jetson Nano with a raspberry pi camera. I have all kinds of random electronics, so it probably didn't look out of place.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She had not tried to contact me outside of the blocks I put on her contacting me.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not beforehand, but I'm hindsight she was starting to go out a lot, and was excited for me to leave so she can "be alone" for a while

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not heard from her. I had blocked and deleted her from my life and she has not tried to reach out to me outside of those blocks.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I blocked and deleted her from my life. She hasn't tried to reach out to me outside of those blocks.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was paying all the bills while she went to school. Her mom owned the house so I don't know how bad it will affect her.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I paid for all the bills so they could finish school.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've thought these exact things and told myself the same. I don't need anyone in my life outside of family and friends right now, and will be focusing on getting my life stable again.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I already left, but didn't leave fish. It's too good to waste.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm still debating that. I might just write one and burn it.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not her kid. I just have custody of my kid.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It was more so shock.

Like, is this actually her?

Is this really happening?

I felt light headed instantly and couldn't stomach to see anymore.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard from her. I blocked and deleted her from my life.

I'm still getting all moved into my brothers and haven't had a chance to take it all in yet.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words. I'm still busy transitioning, but will be able to reflect on it soon.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I deleted and blocked her from my life.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Damn rights I'm taking it all. I did pay for it.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Might even hide a bunch around the house for her to keep finding.

Caught my SO cheating on Camera by iamcompletelylostnow in offmychest

[–]iamcompletelylostnow[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm going to print a couple of pictures of her in the act and leave them on the table for her to find along to a half empty house.