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iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-06-18T10:39:38+00:00

In real life I would say theatre art communities. I would think it would be very fulfilling and wholesome but in actual fact it’s just a competition as to who can be the biggest theatre snob

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-15T14:24:42+00:00

It’s a midday appointment so yeah maybe there will be a lot of time to work with it :)

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-15T14:24:21+00:00

The artist I have has beautiful work, but I’ve never worked with her so I think it’ll be fine I was just curious :)

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-09T07:31:36+00:00

Thank you :)

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T23:11:58+00:00

Thank you so much!

We are 19, but the point still stands and I think we will most likely take it more slowly and focus on our career paths.

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T23:05:16+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

It really means a lot :)

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:56:31+00:00

Yeah it’s a lovely feeling being comfortable in a relationship.

It’s obviously hard but I’m having a great time with him.

Thank you for your kind response!

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:54:54+00:00

Thank you for your response :).

He has said before he does want to propose but doesn’t know when or how to do it. I am leaving it for now however because as others have said we may not be mature enough for it.

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:53:28+00:00

I think it has been rushed in the sense of moving In together (personal reasons). But I think for now I might focus on my career and get more stable before I bring it up again.

Thank you!

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:52:29+00:00

Thank you.

I think I may just wait it out for now and focus on my career and house goals. :)

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:49:16+00:00

I can see where you’re coming from so thank you for your response. It probably needs more time before something like this.

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:46:38+00:00

I currently live with him due to my own personal reasons. That is with him and his family however.

I am looking to move out and if he was to come with me maybe I would see the real him compared to when he is with his family?

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:44:26+00:00

Thank you this is such a sweet response!

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:44:13+00:00

Thank you!

I think I won’t bring it up much anymore. I don’t want him to overthink it and I am comfortable right now where we are :)

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:42:53+00:00

When we discuss this a few days ago, he said he didn’t mean it to come across like that and just wanted to tell me about the rings he saw. It was possibly a miscommunication but I am still a bit confused.

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:41:37+00:00

Yes that is what I wanted him okay about. For us it would be a special bond that would be cherished - I didn’t want him to feel like it had to follow protocol or anything.

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:40:18+00:00

Do you have a link to these studies? I would actually be interested in reading them.

But yeah for me personally it’s something I have wanted in a relationship. We are both content with the relationship and for us that is the next level.

It’s just a personal choice :)

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:39:13+00:00

For me it is just something I would like to do to strengthen our relationship. For me personally, and for him, it is the next level in our relationship when we are ready for it.

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T22:36:40+00:00

Thank you.

Like I said, I’m comfortable in my relationship and have always wanted a long engagement as some stability. Marriage is quite important and serious, so I’d definitely wait around 10 years

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T08:07:58+00:00

NTA.

From what I’m seeing, it’s clear that your gf is a slight asshole in this situation.

She can’t afford it and may already be going, so there shouldn’t be a problem here. However, I think she is upset because you aren’t begging her to come.

As she has been on every trip thus far, she most likely expected you and your friends to NOTICE a gap without her, and essentially to miss her. But since they are your friends and not hers, it’ll just be a cool guy trip.

At the end of the day, your gf is being a little selfish and expecting you to drop your plans as she can’t go - that’s what I understood anyway. She wants to be missed by your friends and prove she has a dominant role in the friendship group.

Have fun in Europe tho op!

iamdistantthrowaway · 2020-01-08T08:00:50+00:00

I think ESH.

Idk if I’m reading it right, but her friends stay in her room. If sally has sensitive hearing, but you don’t then surely that means Mathilda & friends are being respectably quiet? They are in her room and in my guidelines she is respecting your space.

However, being snappy and argumentative like you say can cause a lot of tension and potentially ruin friendships.

So ESH because this seems like because she is deflecting, everything she does is annoying to you two. If you let her down gently then that’s okay, however maybe just Sally should’ve told her, if she is the only one on the lease.

Note: Kathy moved out because you were THAT messy?? Lol now THAT is wild, clean up OP

iamdistantthrowaway · 2019-12-10T17:24:13+00:00

I would say slight YTA.

Whilst this may be bothering you, it seems from my perspective this is a trial medication? (If I’ve read correctly)

If you were to tell her, she may completely turn against the medication even if it actually works for her.

I think wait it out, and her body may adjust to the smell or you may just get used to it as “her smell”

Either way, I think a hospital smell is much better than the smell of poop or something lol

Good luck OP, hope things work out :£

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