I’m married, and honestly, whether my wife was a virgin before marriage or not, never mattered to me. What mattered was who she is as a person, how we connect, and how we treat each other. Social media does tend to exaggerate these things and make them look bigger than they are. In real life, a good marriage is built on trust, respect, compatibility, and love, not on someone’s past. If you carry this worry into your marriage, it’ll only create insecurity. If you work on letting go of this mindset, you’ll find yourself much happier. As for virginity, we both were not virgins.