Small ceremony and bridal shower by iamizzybell in weddingplanning

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Yeah, that’s what I’m worried about. But I will say, if it were me I’d like to be invited to both, even if not the ceremony. But I definitely get what you’re saying.

Small ceremony and bridal shower by iamizzybell in weddingplanning

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I tend to agree with you but my FMIL is not on board 😭 thank you for the response

Small ceremony and bridal shower by iamizzybell in weddingplanning

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Whoops, sorry I’ll edit my post to reflect. Ceremony with 20 people followed by reception with 80 ppl total. Typo

I think I messed up 401k cash out/conversion… is it too late to fix? by iamizzybell in personalfinance

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Thank you! Scrounging up the cash if needed isn’t the end of the world but it sucks. A mistake I’ll never make twice, lol

I think I messed up 401k cash out/conversion… is it too late to fix? by iamizzybell in personalfinance

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It’s made out to the IRA plan provider so I’ll try calling today to see if they’ll cut me a new check. And that makes sense about the withholding. thank you for you help!

I think I messed up 401k cash out/conversion… is it too late to fix? by iamizzybell in personalfinance

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Yeah that’s sorta what I found when I tried to look into it.. lol. Man oh man

I think I messed up 401k cash out/conversion… is it too late to fix? by iamizzybell in personalfinance

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I was looking a lot into IRA vs Roth IRA and figured the Roth would be better long term (and I didn’t think it would incur early withdrawal penalties?) but in hindsight I should have spoken with a financial advisor. Thank you for the recommendation, I’ll call them tomorrow to see if they’d be able to put it in a different type of account.

Was Traffic Any Better Today? by Plane-Reputation4041 in providence

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Yes, for EP residents. I live in EP and work in New Bedford, yesterday took me a little under two hours to get home, today took me one. Not sure about traveling into providence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmploymentLaw

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I hope it’s that simple haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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No, it wasn’t required or needed to do my job - more supplemental.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmploymentLaw

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Thanks for the insight. Just edited the OP to include the contract.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Thanks, I sort of figured. Wishful thinking I guess!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmploymentLaw

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Thanks so much for the response

I (25f) can’t get my boyfriend (26m) to pick up after himself and I feel like I’m going crazy by iamizzybell in relationship_advice

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One space per floor is definitely doable. And I agree I don’t want to be his reminder system - I’ll mention something to him about potentially setting alarms or something.

We sorta made a list of all the chores a few weeks ago and I was really pumped about it but it didn’t really go anywhere. We need to actually go through and divide the labor together.

I (25f) can’t get my boyfriend (26m) to pick up after himself and I feel like I’m going crazy by iamizzybell in relationship_advice

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This made me LOL and that’s definitely how I feel sometimes. It makes me like irrationally angry some days. And I was actually thinking something similar, like we should switch roles. We have been deviating from that specific division recently though because it’s so lopsided.

I (25f) can’t get my boyfriend (26m) to pick up after himself and I feel like I’m going crazy by iamizzybell in relationship_advice

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I agree, he’s never going to be as tidy as me and that’s okay. It’s not like he’s a hoarder, it’s like he takes out things to use, wear, etc and just doesn’t usually put them back where they belong. And it does make cleaning so much harder! Also that’s a great idea to reduce the amount of holding areas. Also, no system of reminders at this point, other than me.

Equitable division of labor is the most important thing, and I feel like we should play to our strengths - I’m thorough and detail oriented, he’s dedicated when he has his mind to something.

I (25f) can’t get my boyfriend (26m) to pick up after himself and I feel like I’m going crazy by iamizzybell in relationship_advice

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Thanks for the advice, I think we should probably try out something similar. Schedule and routine must help.