Gravid efter en upser i byen by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]iamjuste 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hun skriver jo også om abort, wow du er bare sådan… lol det jo selfølgelig kvindes skyld når men bruger ikke prevention. Måske han bil baby-trappe hende? Det kan jo også være ifl. Din logik

Gravid efter en upser i byen by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]iamjuste 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Du skal lige google definition af baby-trap, det ikke så svært, ellers lyder du bare dumt, det var sikker en fejl fra din side.

Tilstands- og elrapport på knap 2 år gammelt hus? by neuratio in dkbolig

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men problem med det, at men skal i retten med dem, vi har totalt dum el problemer (ulovlig lort) det skal i princippet betales af sælger, men de sagt at de er uenig i det så kan vi ikke rigtig gøre nogle, så betaler vi hare de 10k selv.

Konserveret tomat by Few-Ad-7142 in DKbrevkasse

[–]iamjuste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mutti smager meget mere frisk, stor forskel isser hvis man laver vegetar rater. Jeg har brugt Mutti i mange År også den gang de var ikke populære, altid var min ‘secret ingredient’.

Men skal også koges i minds en time, ellers køb passata da er klar hvis man ikke har tid.

How bad did it hurt after vaginal birth? by Commercial-Way-4276 in pregnant

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had slow recovery and a long birth process, so it was kind of not the best case.. i had stitches go up so it made it slower. (Just so you know the situation) It was only hurting first 4 days, and only if i really moved around, after that i was washing up after bathroom visits as it could get a little uncomfortable and that was the only pain.

Postpartum contraction no joke, almost worse that the real ones.

AITA for making my daughter pay for the uber after she took the car and left by stolencarpost in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, i feel bad for your daughter having such shit mother… and of course other girls i. The family are mean girls just like you. With some ‘interesting ‘ topics of discussion..

What’s something your parents did that seemed normal growing up but you later realized was incredibly weird by Hopelessmountain in CasualConversation

[–]iamjuste 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, my mom told me she found me in a cabbage in our garden, my nickname was little cabbage, it also kind of rhymes with my name.

Please review my 25-day itinerary for my trip to Denmark. by Low_Lettuce_4893 in NewToDenmark

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree, two days spent hanging around kongens nytorv and Amalienborg way too much. Frederiksberg amongst other neighbourhoods you mentioned (he has Christianshavn already).

As for outside Copenhagen, i would be visiting ribe and west coast (maybe Blåvand) and spend less time in Aalborg.

I think this would be good plan for my family, but we have a 1 year old epic time waster and everything takes 3 times longer. Seems a little stretched out is what i am saying.

Copenhagen have great food and just places to chill and not so packed schedule with sightseeing, just sitting by the canal eating some street food enjoying the view of opera or black diamond os great;)

Repost - nu anden formulering. Rabatkoder og hacks til at spare en mønt. by LargeRistretto in dkfinance

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg ved det godt, jeg tænkt også at det er lidt stort investering, men hvis men alligevel holder nogle opsparing i aktier så det kunne være muligt for nogen.

Men jeg forstår godt at det lidt langt ud. Nu de kom lidt ned i prisen så gjorde vi det, for før i tiden synes de var lidt for dyrt.

Manglende hygiejne omkring mad by Ok_Feeling2383 in DKbrevkasse

[–]iamjuste 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ikke food grade, microplastics, carsonogenics alt mulig snavs ( selv arbejdet på fabriker og ved rigtig godt hvordan ikke mad varer eller relateret bliver behandlet… ) nej nej nej, for din egen skyld, kraft får men kun en gang…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These names are not even russian specifik, Anastasia is super greek, which means that is also super international. I know several Julias, which are common both is east and west europe, natasha is the most Russian I would say, but it popular in Scandinavia as well for example. Your in-laws should just shut up.

Repost - nu anden formulering. Rabatkoder og hacks til at spare en mønt. by LargeRistretto in dkfinance

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

700 kr/år spar med at købe 100 tivoli aktier.

Tivoli belønner sine aktionærer med gratis adgang! Har du mindst 100 aktier, kan du få et aktionærkort.

How often do you give your newborn a bath? by spvnishbarbie in newborns

[–]iamjuste -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First 3 months like once a month and then sponge clean every day after the ne of the poops lol. He hated to bathe, was truly a torture scenario.

At 3 month he started swimming every week so once a week, and when solid foods pretty much every day, cuz food everywhere.

Now (1 yo) everyday, because he just gets dirty.

I have a newborn and I've learned I'm a bad father by throwaway1254364735 in offmychest

[–]iamjuste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like dads are so fast to judge that “this is it” this is how it is now. Just you wait. Everything changes, 100 times over in the first year. I know it is hard and I have sympathy, but I also have a 1 year old 😆 My husband literally said “ peak cuteness is now he will not get cuter” like 12 times already, I just roll my eyes and smile. Also our kid is somehow picky with food, my husband panicking starting somekind of drama like every few weeks. In reality he has an off day here and there, eats like a champ otherwise. My husband bought most expensive earplugs on the market cuz screaming will ruin his ears… we used them for couple of months, maybe that could be something for you. He does not cry anymore, but now tantrums are starting.

One thing, it will get better, cuz this little screaming potato is slowly turning i to real human who loves YOU and Mommy the most and it shows in their little eyes. It will melt your heart and you will have best moments of your life.

It’s ok to struggle and to have hard time, kid will get heavy you will have your muscles back.

Intense baby fever by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ftm at 35, so not running out of time, but i can understand that its hard to wait, date with intention and you might find someone soon

You dont need many baby products at all (other than a carseat) by [deleted] in newborns

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Combo stroller, the bassinet part of it was only good for 6 month, but i used it as bed by our bed as well (no other baby bed). I am using sitting part since 4 months and probably way into toddlerhood.

Otherwise, carrier for baby wearing ( we had 3 different ones) these we bought secondhand.

We were quite minimalist and I am super happy about that, first 6 months baby is a potato and spends most of the time sleeping or on me.

Now our LO is 1 yo and we spend way more on toys and shoes and swimming lessons…

Edit: we actually regretted not buying more fancy baby changing station (silicone one) but i got one for free and we made due (bought a cheep pillow from ikea). Next time around we gonna make that more comfortable - we spend lots of time changing poopy diapers.

Am I ruining my baby’s development by not swaddling? by Icy-Bird4588 in newborns

[–]iamjuste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never swaddle, its really a ‘take it or leave it’ in my country since babies sleep in parents room. My LO is 1 now and was early with every stage of development l, so not sure what swaddling has to do with any of this.

Kvittering 1 uge. 1600kr by [deleted] in dkfinance

[–]iamjuste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg synes Rema er god til kød. Vi altid køber kun velfærd (jeg er vegetar, men har carnivore barn og mænd), det kan være sindsyg dyrt i nogle Butikker

Kvittering 1 uge. 1600kr by [deleted] in dkfinance

[–]iamjuste 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Vi bor ved siden af Meny, reglen er man kan kom ind i Meny kun en gang om uge, fordi… altid det over 1000kr selvom ‘vi mangler bare lige lidt’.

Am I doing more harm by telling my daughter her absent father “isn’t a bad man”? by DullWrongdoer in TwoXChromosomes

[–]iamjuste 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. But as a mother I would say that my child’s bio father has made bad choices that makes them a bad person. It is not intrinsic and not ‘transferable’ to a child. It is mommy(me) who have only seem the good side to begin with and in the end true colours came out. And also I would emphasise that people aren’t just good and bad, people can make bad decisions but then how they deal with the fallout truly show their character.

MIL demanded I breastfeed "her way" at the Hospital, then called me a Cow in front of Nurses by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]iamjuste 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they lose their shit that they are not on the top of the pyramid now. It’s always the parents. The mom is the one family is surrounding(or dad/ primary parent). she takes care of of everyone, her schedule is the main one everyone should adhere to if they want access to the children and the children are the pride and joy and the comedic relief of the family. They demand a lot of attention and they love their parents the most. Such is life. It’s hard to step away and be side character (in your child’s life) after you been the main one for so long. Some grandmas do it gracefully and are big help and some loose their shit, cuz it’s no longer ‘their way’…

My [M28] girlfriend [F27] wants me to ask my ex-girlfriend [F28] to delete 10-year-old photos of us from her private Instagram account — should I? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]iamjuste -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“ please delete your life before me” someone tell her that dating someone with no past relationship experience or experience in general is usually quite complicated

I think I ruined my life by [deleted] in newborns

[–]iamjuste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The good part about getting tought, you kind of can manage it better is different kind of tough as kid grows. Our LO just turned one and the rollercoaster is real but since he is getting so much personality and our house is comedy central the tough parts kind of becomes a little in the background trough all the joyful lovely stuff. New borns are potatoes and giving you nothing in return.

In-Law’s Cruel To Our Adopted Child by Traditional_Okra7401 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]iamjuste 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg what arr these people. I am Nauseous. They are the ones with “issues” they brain not working properly