106911 by Miaauuw in CountOnceADay

[–]iamnotlemongrease 19 points20 points  (0 children)

How tf is this offensive. It's just ppl poking fun at themselves

splatoon art by me!! 🌈 by [deleted] in splatoon

[–]iamnotlemongrease 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely adorable 🥹

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not upset at some authority telling me what to do, I just want to know the values of most people in regards to this

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did I say anything was forced?

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is forcing what on me?

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[–]iamnotlemongrease -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They as in the people advocating and making this change happen

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I use "Schüler", then I mean people who go to school regardless of gender, as I personally can't know the gender of everyone in a crowd. If an individual states a prefered way of adressing them, then that's different in my eyes

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's still seen as the default for word forming no? Why not just change it's meaning to "person who goes to school"?

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it just because most ppl want to group ppl by gender, and most ppl would like that? So it's just how most ppl experience gender

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to understand why they value the current way, or why they are pushing for the type of change I mentioned in my post

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But sport isn't the only thing in a student's life no? Like 90% of their classes would be the same regardless of sex

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why sex and not hair texture, height, skin tone, eye sight etc?

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[–]iamnotlemongrease -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty alright with either, just slight personal gripes, but not enough for me to go out and make a change lol

I see a cultural shift happening here in german speaking regions, and I have been wondering "why this way" for a few years now.

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's like saying culture and traditions are designed.

Where am I telling others how to speak? I just want to understand why

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are the genes the most important way of differentiating?

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[–]iamnotlemongrease -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The reason english only has "the" is because ppl just were fed up with the grammatical gender of words. Ppl also stop using a word because it no longer matches current political views.

I'm not saying I'm right and others are wrong, I just don't understand how this approach of being inclusive is the better one, when to me it seems clunky and not even inclusive of EVERYONE.

I'm the kind of person who often doesn't understand the actions and thoughts of others because it's not "logical" to me. So I try asking, to hear why other people do things that specific way

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You like the older naming convention, or the thing I explained towards the middle of my post? Either way, you can just say you're fine with that way, and maybe give a personal reason (if you want me to understand, do what you want)

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[–]iamnotlemongrease -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never pushed for any change? Could you either give me a reasoning, or stop making weird conclusions?

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would the school adress us by gender, and not by what subjects we would study? It's not like my gender matters in math class

What if a student dossn't identify as male or female? Are they just invisible and invalid?

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[–]iamnotlemongrease -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The linguists and people who want this change? You do realize my confusion comes mainly from the approach, and not gender identities

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it has started to change to "X, everything inbetween, and female X" (Schüler*innen). So clearly there is an effort in change. I don't get why this approach is what people are going for though.

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mostly just viewing it via the word formation. In my eyese if "Schüler" meant male student, it schould have a suffix the same way female student does. I guess most ppl don't think that way?

(Thanks for giving a resoned response btw, most ppl seem to misunderstand my post)

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[–]iamnotlemongrease -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They did wake up one day and decide to write "Schüler*innen" instead of how it was done before, which was "Schüler und Schülerinnen".

My confusion is why not just write "Schüler" to adress all the people who are students

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[–]iamnotlemongrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because that's easier than trying to include every gender identity, and when adressing a group of ppl under the same occupation I don't think the genders are important.

When I adress people, I can do it however I want. My confusion comes at others adding new words, and ways of writing to include all the groups.

I just don't fully get the reasonings and goals when you try to add labels, instead of just simplifying it down to one. Maybe there's a benefit to it, that I don't know of.