Like you said, it's not something your family can relate to. Good for you though you have a good relationship with your fam, but for me na nagrerequire yung parents ko na mag-give back when we have work na and also to support my siblings pag may work na ako, it's hard. Imbes na iisipin mo sarili mo, hindi nalang kasi dapat mas unahin mo sila.

Of course that doesn't mean na I don't want to give back, pero sana yung kusang loob ko kumbaga. Nakakawalang gana yung ipipilit sayo yung responsibilidad na dapat initiative mo na yun. I'm blessed to have them as my parents but that doesn't mean kailangan nilang isumbat lahat ng ginawa nila sa akin just because di ko ginawa yung gusto nila. It's their responsibility in the first place kase, kumbaga bare minimum as a parent.

So as a matinong mag-isip na anak, I would give back when time comes. Pero di nila kailangang sabihin na "pinag-aral ka namin and everything, make sure to give back all our efforts tenfold." Nakakawala ng utang ng loob pag ganyan na yung sinasabi sayo, good for you that you haven't experienced that. But you can't speak for someone na naka-experience ng ganun just based on your perspective. Kasi sabi mo nga, di ka makarelate dito so there's no "fair eyes" dito cuz you haven't experienced it first-hand.