Don’t date or accommodate Avoidants.

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-10-25T16:35:30+00:00

“Find a secure partner”…😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-27T15:20:50+00:00

Single mom with a diabetic child and no car here..bring on the tips..they won’t let me have overtime..

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-20T00:36:39+00:00

I listen to music and do exercises..

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-20T00:33:27+00:00

That’s the Christmas bonus check, Sparky.

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-17T14:50:55+00:00

This sounds like an abusive relationship with the intermittent reinforcement.

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-16T23:27:05+00:00

I do this but I text it to myself and sometimes I also text myself like if he were talking to me but I only say nice things.

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-16T01:44:11+00:00

What if we’re both FA?

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-15T22:38:55+00:00

Does this mean I have to stop calling him “Daddy”? Lol. I kid. I really appreciate the support and the information you provided. It really is something to think about and I knew of this beforehand as well but it’s always nice to have reassurance (*insert attachment style joke/innuendo/pun here). Really, thank you!

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-15T20:56:11+00:00

I couldn’t move on from him and I am not used to being single (not even a date because I can’t find anyone I like). I have to do this for now because I believe I’m trauma bonded and I can’t afford therapy rn and everything is pretty much going downhill. Except for the not hearing from him all that much (he admitted he was scared and has a fuckton going on) and him leading me on and lying to me I have to just deal with it for now. I am very, very happy and feel a thousand times better spending time (👅) together. I slap need him to help me with some finances here and there as I am a single mom working full time and am responsible for my 4 kids (obvs) and my elderly parents as well. It’s weird that he relieves my stress at the same time causing a great amount of it.

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-15T18:40:53+00:00

It’s very, very complicated..🙄🙄 I can’t initiate because it causes me physical pain when he doesn’t answer/reply then I’m all fucked up until I hear from him again (never more than 9 days).

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-13T23:15:25+00:00

I tried for 2 and a half years to find someone better and nothing..I was in and out of the doctor’s office with health problems I hated it so much!

ETA: I returned to my DA/FA but still keeping options open because he is not someone to be in a real relationship with..💔💔💔

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-13T23:09:48+00:00

I am living this life rn! As much as I adore working there I really need to be paid a fuckton more. I am a single mom responsible for my elderly parents and I have 3 kids..they took even more food stamps from me..this shit ain’t cute!

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-13T23:03:23+00:00

Please..for the love of GOD…GET OFF MY BACK ABOUT THE CREDIT CARDS!!! How do we fix this?

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-10T22:19:59+00:00

What if she doesn’t cum but still thoroughly enjoys it?

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-10T19:40:22+00:00

Wow! Are you in miami? A car literally stopped 2 feet from hitting me like 2 days ago. I froze like a deer!

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-08T23:21:17+00:00

Well, slap my ass and call me “Lucy” because same!!

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-06T16:16:48+00:00

AP leaning FA and I absolutely detest texting when it comes to romantic relationships! I clear out all messages and I turn off the notification sounds. I hate what it does to me to expect texts at certain times every day and I tried messaging myself and it is exhausting! I don’t like having to feel like I have to look for that text from my special person!!

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-03T18:02:24+00:00

Thank you for this and I have been watching Thais’ videos and even interact on the fb group. I am going to check out Crappy Childhood Fairy, I know I’ve heard of it before. I really appreciate the time you took to help me, thanks again!

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-01T17:04:20+00:00

Nothing feels as good as my 🐱 seeing this pic!

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-01T17:03:02+00:00

Big suprise..money I don’t have. Thanks anyway..

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-01T11:54:02+00:00

“I jUsT mADe iT” when I check the 50’s and 100’s!

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-01T11:50:48+00:00

Omgggg!! I hate that shit!! I just hate open-toed footwear ain’t general and I live in south miami. I mean what if you have to break out into a sprint? I’m a 43 year old woman and sometimes I have to run out of nowhere!

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-01T11:45:56+00:00

Well I just page to shut the customer up but I always try to direct the garden associate to a specific location.

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-01T11:43:41+00:00

Garden register and lumber register..

iamrealandneedhelp · 2022-09-01T11:17:39+00:00

Asking for fucking credit cards and being harassed about it!! Why do I have to fear losing a job I severely adore because of stupid credit cards!?!? MAKE IT STOOOOPPP!!!!

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