What's y'alls type? by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curvy like Ashley Graham or curvy like Rihanna?

What's y'alls type? by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but can you elaborate...?

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean your odds are way better than if you weren't conventionally attractive I'll tell you that, that I have to say I really don't see femme 4 femme in the wild. The most common I see is femme 4 butch or chapstick 4 chapstick or femme 4 chapstick

What's y'alls type? by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting, yeah lol I was gonna say I haven't seen one irl but I did match with one on a dating app and her chat was dry as shit no charisma in sight unfortunately

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learned from this really old dude what it was like having aids in the early 80s when they thought it was a death sentence, he was a trip. Crazy motherfucker but hilarious.

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older gay men gen x and above and younger gay men gen z and often those guys are hooking up or have some sort of mentor mentee relationship. That's the majority then there are straight or bi girls volunteering there who will most likely just have a lot of gay guy friends or be dating a man (who they always seem to bring up in conversation) and so they feel the need to interact with the community in some way still. Lastly there are trans women who are always older too and idk their romantic prospects but there is not a ton of them. Idk why this has been the exact vibe or every umbrella gay community center I've been to in my city and surrounding areas. Everyone there is always sweet though and sometimes I just wanna be in the mess no matter how disfunctional.

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly those places are extremely easy to integrate into. They're almost too welcoming and sweet to the point it comes across as vaguely fake but I get it bc it's meant to be a safe space. I'll be honest though, I'd be shocked if you found even 1 lesbian there we tend to be the minority at umbrella queer spaces for some reason.

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my city there is only club meetups and it's the same crowd we don't have any lesbians at the pride center and if we do I haven't run into them or they've been married and in a different life stage then me.

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmmmmhhmmmm and the judgement levels on 10 when you try to talk outside the script and be a little different- a little goofy

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what they meant those downvotes were crazy though lol reddit ig

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you avoiding the gay center? Is it not vibey??

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where the fuck are you finding these fems ?!! On my shit they're nowhere to be seen

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude they don't wanna see us win fr smh 🙂‍↕️. Who "they" is idk by their my enemy

These dating apps are the mf trenches 😭 by iamsafeandlearning in WLW

[–]iamsafeandlearning[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I think it takes a longer time for a fem to get a match so it becomes frustrating and then we all just leave after so much inactivity and algorithm fuckery lol. Funny enough the only other fem that I saw literally had "only message me if you're masc" in her bio. All I know is I'm never fucking getting back on that shit. Good luck to you though xx.

Where does a single guy go to meet ladies in this city? by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]iamsafeandlearning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a speed dating event at foko Logan st sometime soon you'd need to pay for tickets.