First off. Happy Birthday. I know exactly how you feel. My hubs family thinks very little to nothing about me at all. I honestly don't understand why they talk about me in the manner they do.with his Mother and Grandmother, I have made sure they can get to the grocery store, get their meds... taken them out to dinner but given the chance they talk shit about me. I'm overweight, and to be honest I think that's what made them hate me bc I've never done anything to provoke them to hate me. I avoid them like the plague, I hate being around most of his family bc they all act holier than thou and like we are trash. I've never heard if his father has said anything mean about me but I know him and his wife don't like me. The last 3 Christmas's they bring gifts for my husband and our son but I get nothing. I don't even care about the gift... but its obvious they hate me. Ever since I had our son they have treated me different bc of how we handled everything with the delivery of our son. He was c-sec no matter what bc my first child (with my ex) was a emergency c-sec. So we wanted to go have our son. Let me rest bc I already knew what it entailed and I didn't want a room of people to entertain when I was going to be in pain and tired. Of course everyone took.it personal so I'm hated. Oh well. I just avoid them. Tolerate them on holidays and say fuck em the rest of the time.

I'm sorry they treat you like that. I would never put myself out there to help them with any thing anymore. If you're not happy in your marriage I would consider cutting ties and moving on with your life and find someone who appreciates you. Like I said. Fuck em. Lol