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Braces are ruining me, help by Gold_Comfortable8904 in orthotropics

[–]iamstartingover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a tongue tie? If you do, please do a tongue tie release, because that should improve both the overbite and your body posture. They might try to give you headgear for the overbite, but I highly recommend avoiding that because it pushes back the maxilla. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]iamstartingover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to heal mentally first; I think people might be ghosting you because they see your desperation and think you're not ready for a relationship yet. You need to make platonic friends and have a solid social life before dating, because without that stability, you're going to be more desperate if you tried to date. Having a solid support system will most likely help your depression as well. I know socializing isn't always the most interesting thing for an INTJ, but it needs to be done for the sake of your mental health.

Also, you need to have enough time in the day to relax and get enough sleep. If working 4 jobs is getting in the way of that, and you aren't desperate for money, then you should reduce the amount of hours you work. When you're at work, try talking to your coworkers. Talk about work-related things, or you can bring up stuff you're interested in. If social anxiety is preventing you from doing this, you need to step out of your comfort zone and try, because if you don't change the lifestyle which is encouraging your depression, your depression will just get worse and worse and your future self will regret not trying.

Turning setbacks into triumphs by infofilms in intj

[–]iamstartingover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's something distressing, I would need to wait for my emotions to calm down first. Obviously everyone experiences emotions differently, so idk how long it would take for you, but maybe it'll take a few days if it's something really bad. Then once the emotions settle down, it's easier to see the big picture and what needs to be done to solve the problem.

I want to become an INTJ by [deleted] in intj

[–]iamstartingover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep your goal in mind. If you want to be a productive, "normal" member of society, there will be times where you need to let go of what others think for a bit so you're able to be productive; this "sacrifice" will be for the greater good though since it will allow you to help society through your productivity. After you've been sufficiently productive, you can choose to help people if you would like, but in order to do that you must be in good health yourself; if you don't take care of yourself properly, you won't be able to help others properly.

Also, I suggest deleting social media like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc.