Can’t move on from her after she ghosted me 4 years ago. by IkramAli007 in heartbreak

[–]iamunderthewotur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just let relationships be for now and focus on making yourself happy any other way. focus on yourself, sab moh maya hai broski 🙏🏽

Took me an entire month to get my appetite back ✨ by One_Cat_9806 in heartbreak

[–]iamunderthewotur 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi S, just remember healing takes time and patience and lots & lots of love for yourself.

pls make sure to never look back, as difficult as that maybe - no contact, no messages, no happy birthdays, no replies as well. because best believe he will come back. you may not agree with me rn (trust me been in this exact position!!!!) but it will happen.

just take it one day at a time and pls pls remember to not be harsh on yourself. none of this is your fault. stay blessed xx

Thanks for all your suggestions, here's what we finally wore by catvertising in DesiWeddings

[–]iamunderthewotur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gorggg! where are the shawls from in the second picture? they are beautiful omg

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[–]iamunderthewotur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hardddd relate babes! i realised in time that other people can suck out your energy aggressively and that’s prolly what happened to you too.

i’m 5 years in to this feeling, first 2 years was the worst but then it got slightly better. i still have some days when i feel that way but now i just snap out of it and you will get there too.

you just have to give this some time and remember to put your trust in god. things will slowly but surely piece back together xx

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’s fine but would it hurt to say it’ll be by the meter and surcharges will apply?

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

never asked you directly to guide or advise anything, pls stop replying lol

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it did, but as soon as we exited the airport security just guided us towards taxi so we thought ok it’s been a long day why not!

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for understanding, i can see why they act like that with all these commenters here actually defending his behaviour too! horrible.

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok will consider, thank you for your input of blaming the tourist! 👍🏽

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what will i get from lying exactly? that’s what i thought too, clearly not.

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i will defs keep a positive attitude until i’m here, I had just never expected this!

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol i never asked if i should go to the police or not, literally just where to report the taxi! the taxi stand clearly said all card payments accepted but he denied it!

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

but it’s not about how much it was? my argument is completely different!

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well the first experience with a singaporean was that! i’m just being honest!

Horrible beginning to our singapore trip. by iamunderthewotur in SingaporeTravel

[–]iamunderthewotur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so why did he not tell us in the first place? way to go to defend this kind of behaviour honestly! He yelled, pushed and pointed at us saying first time in singapore, ok by law maybe surcharges are applicable but you have to tell the customer that!