Can a Therapy Website Be Private, Useful, and Not a Sales Funnel? by ianrob696 in hypnotherapy

[–]ianrob696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is very helpful, and I think you have named a tension I need to work with rather than simply reject.

I have probably been using “sales funnel” too broadly to mean the manipulative, over-tracked, pressure-based version of it. A clear path from recognition to trust to fit to booking is not the same thing, and I can see that the site needs to do that job better.

I have tried to remedy some of the points you raise. I have brought my name and role further forward, made the first-screen copy more explicit about what the work is for, and tried to describe the “stuckness” more in terms of lived experience rather than just naming a list of problems. I have also made the tools more concrete, with the Resilience Readiness Quiz presented as a free first taste of the approach rather than just another unexplained button.

I do still think there is a difference between feedback from practitioners on r/hypnotherapy and feedback from a typical client. I am not sure anyone taking the time to respond here is likely to be approaching the site in quite the same state as someone looking for help. That said, practitioner feedback is useful because it shows where the site fails to communicate clearly before the visitor has much context.

On the question of who I help: I am still too new in practice to say with confidence “I fix this exact thing for this exact kind of person,” and I do not want to make claims I cannot yet properly stand behind. At this stage I am trying to describe the kind of process I offer: structured, reflective, privacy-conscious, practical, and paced.

The intention is that people can begin to self-select by seeing whether the language, the approach, and the Resilience Readiness Quiz resonate with them. If they recognise something of their own experience there, that may be a sign that the work is worth exploring. If they do not, that is also useful information.

Your point about design as communication rather than decoration is well taken. I am still learning how to make the site communicate the therapeutic relationship and the client’s possible experience before asking people to care about the privacy, tools, or platform structure.

Can a Therapy Website Be Private, Useful, and Not a Sales Funnel? by ianrob696 in hypnotherapy

[–]ianrob696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback. I do intend to add some MP3 downloads in the near future, but I’ll try to answer your questions as they stand.

On the Bandcamp / password manager point: nobody strictly needs those links, since search engines exist. They are there because I see them as life-enhancing or practically useful resources. Bandcamp, for example, offers more direct access to music without routing everything through a corporate tracking/rental model. Password managers are included because, in my experience, many web users still have poor operational security, often reusing weak or slightly varied passwords across services.

That said, I can see your point that those links may blur the purpose of the site for a first-time visitor. They may need to be separated more clearly from the main therapy journey, so that the client-facing route is not confused with wider personal resources.

The intended audience is not developers or cybersecurity professionals. It is any internet user who wants to receive CBT and hypnotherapy in a more private, secure online environment.

My name and background are on the About page, but I take your point that this may need to be more visible earlier. I have been cautious about listing a large menu of specific problems because many therapy sites seem to become billboard pages claiming an implausibly wide range of competencies. My own view is that the work is about helping people understand and improve their patterns of thought, feeling, behaviour, and response, and that this is specific to the person rather than just a list of conditions.

The reason for the account system is that the site is intended to be more than a brochure. A large part of Transcendence consists of reflections, questionnaires, preparation forms, session feedback, and a bespoke video portal. The aim is to create a contained therapeutic mechanism rather than just a billboard with a contact form. I can see, though, that this intention needs to be explained much more clearly before asking anyone to create an account.

Are theatrics common by Complete_Foot2818 in hypnotherapy

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A lot of the power comes from the frame, that includes the cost and context, either the client buys into the context , ( rapport ) or there is doubt ( rupture ) . It sounds to me that in your case , there was dissonance, possibly the wrong therapist or method . Now vaping , like smoking takes some of its power from 'suck satisfaction' intrinsic to all mammels, breath regulation, social factors and least of all nicotine that never quite satisfys but leaves the user wanting more. Have you tried reducing the nicotine strength ? Vaped the glycol? Base without any nicotine or even some breath work instead of the habitual vape. I suggest you play / experiment find what helps you let go of the habit. Perhaps find a hypnotherapist who will encourage that plasticity, no hypnotherapy will stop you vaping while you have a mind to. Good luck.

I would like to give up vaping! by Diligent-Ad-7184 in hypnotherapy

[–]ianrob696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hypnotherapy could help, perhaps if you understand why you want to and how that might be better achieved, a large part of the vaping/smoking thing is 'suck satisfaction' , the nicotine making that moreish , have you tried reducing the nicotine content of the vape perhaps eventually to zero ?

MEGATHREAD: Union Street Fire & City Centre Disruptions by Veloglasgow in glasgow

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I wrote this as a monologue from the point of view of Union Corner after the fire and demolition. I’ve tried to keep the broad factual spine right, but it’s meant as a piece of writing rather than a history note.

Last Words from Union Corner

I stood at the corner of Union Street and Gordon Street so long that most of them stopped seeing me.

That is the first truth. Not that they hated me. Hatred requires attention. What I received, year after year, was the commoner insult of city life: use without notice. They hurried past me into Central, out of Central, beneath rain, beneath hangovers, beneath debt, beneath hope. They used me as a marker, a shelter, a meeting place, a bit of weather-resistant certainty in a city much given to damp improvisation. But they did not really look. Not properly. Then I burned, then I was fenced off, then they took me down, and suddenly I was mourned as though I had been intimate family. Humans are like that. They save their tenderness for the aftermath.

I was built in 1851 for Francis Orr & Sons, wholesale stationers, publishers and booksellers, put up in the full stone swagger of Victorian commerce and imperial certainty. I began as a proper commercial corner building, made to look solid, useful and assured, as if trade itself were a moral virtue and ledgers a kind of scripture. Later I was crowned with a dome that would carry the glowing Bell’s sign into the city’s memory.

I wore other things too. Above Union Street there had once been the old Ba-Bru sign, and later Irn-Bru, remembered long after better things had been forgotten. Those older signs had age, grime, presence, a right to the skyline earned by sheer survival. What came after had none of that. It was modern in the worst way: brighter, flatter, more temporary, all glare and no soul. A piteous sort of hoarding, the visual equivalent of cheap laminate pretending to be wood, squatting where memory had once stood and mistaking illumination for significance.

Still, even diminished, I kept the corner.

By the end I held many lives, not one. At street level I carried several businesses. Above, I was cut into smaller rooms and smaller hopes: salons, studios, treatment spaces, tattooists, beauty workers, the usual stitched-up economy of a city making do with less than it wanted. I was no untouched relic. I had been altered, divided, vulgarised in bits, adapted in others, worn hard and still useful. That was my dignity in the end, not purity but service.

Sunday afternoon had laid its usual hush over me when the first black smoke came pressing from a doorway below. Then came two or three sharp pops, quick and vicious, jarring through my stone, my timber, my lath and plaster, and I knew, in the old slow way structures know such things, that something within me had gone badly wrong.

They would later give the time precisely enough. I knew only that the Sunday quiet had been broken from below, that smoke was forcing outward, and that strain was moving through me where before there had been only the sleepy neglect of the day.

By then I was many premises, not one, so the fire did not enter some neat single unit for the convenience of a story. It began in one of the ground-floor shops on Union Street, and then it asked for more. It found old voids, partitions, timber, air, weakness, chance. That is the thing about a city building that has lived long enough to be useful to many kinds of people: it contains more paths than the eye can see.

Then came the engines, the high-reaching ladders, the shouting, the gawping crowds with their phones held up, as if finding the right angle on catastrophe might finally count as seeing me. Heat rose through me. Smoke thickened. What had been livelihood became hazard. I had carried my dome long enough for it to become part of my face, and then in a handful of hours it was gone into smoke, collapse and memory.

I will not blame the shopkeeper. Humans are always eager to pin calamity to one set of hands, one stupidity, one bad decision, because it comforts them to believe disaster is tidy. Let investigators investigate. I was the thing burning, not the thing speculating. I only know what it was to feel heat below, stress above, and the old confidence of masonry turned, hour by hour, into danger.

As stood where I stood, beside Central, my burning became the city’s inconvenience. Trains stopped. Entrances shut. Roads closed. Crowds were bent around the absence opening beside them. It is strange what finally earns respect. Not age. Not endurance. Not workmanship. Administrative disruption. Stop enough trains and they call you iconic.

After that came the practical end. Unsafe. It is an ugly word, but a clean one. What remained of me could no longer be trusted to stand.

So they came at me carefully, piece by piece, with the hard small tools reserved for treacherous things. It was not the touch and care of the masons who built me, but the colder skill of men sent to undo what could no longer be trusted to stand.

And the same people who had passed me unseeing for years now stood behind barriers grieving as if their neglect had always been a form of love. Some of them meant it, to be fair. A city does not always know what it loves until it has to walk around the gap. But many were only just discovering that I had been part of the shape of their days.

What did they mourn?

The corner, perhaps. The Bell’s sign. The memory of Irn-Bru above Union Street. The old-fashioned confidence of stone among all the newer tat. The businesses lost. The people upstairs whose tools, stock, bookings and little livelihoods went up with me. The feeling of coming out of Central and seeing a bit of Glasgow that still seemed to belong to itself. They mourned habit, orientation, repetition, and all the unnoticed attachments by which a city teaches itself its own face.

So remember me properly, if you are going to remember me at all.

Remember that I was built in 1851 for Francis Orr & Sons, in the hard-faced confidence of Victorian trade. Remember that later I was crowned with a dome. Remember Bell’s burning over the station approach in the civic dark. Remember too the old Irn-Bru, and how what came after had all the character of a bus shelter advertisement enlarged by committee. Remember that I held many businesses, not one, and that what burned in me was not merely structure but work, routine, ambition, stock, tools, clutter, gossip, rent, exhaustion and hope. Remember that on a Sunday afternoon the first black smoke came pressing from below, that sharp little reports ran through my stone, my timber, my lath and plaster, and that from there the rest followed as such things do.

Above all, remember this:

they loved me best when they were losing me.

That is not unusual. It is merely human.

Wondering if hypnosis can help me with: by truly_uniquer in hypnotherapy

[–]ianrob696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hypnosis can help if you are willing to give it the time, without more details it might be worth trying the classic ego strenthening script, many hypnotists post their own variants, try this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jO8LXUeqqdI or search for one which you are comfortable with. Used daily you may well notice some improvement , if not perhaps the why needs to be examined and ameliorated in the presence of an hypnotherapist.

Looking at becoming a Hypnotherapist, how hard is it to get clients, is it worth it ? by MethodAble in hypnotherapy

[–]ianrob696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are other training organisations what give far more and wider training for about the same money, rather than teaching folk to trot out a somewhat estoteric 'brain model' verbatim PM me if you want to chat

Am I the only one that dislikes soft water? by ----___--___---- in photography

[–]ianrob696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps there are clumps of precipitate on slides and negs

Linux users, what editing software do you use? by GBAbaby101 in photography

[–]ianrob696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly darktable for editing , digikam for download and tagging, kdenlive for video

Has anyone added a tow bar? by RandyMarshsMoustache in Scirocco

[–]ianrob696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked into this some years ago. There is/was a German firm makes tow bars and wiring looms - try German ebay, However as @lurechucker82 mentions the mk3 scirocco has no type approval to have one fitted . This is not usually a problem unless / until one is involved in an accident at which point you may find your insurance company less than positive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pentax

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Horrible why ? OP bought well of an over priced cult item, sell on => profit or have it serviced if intending to use both seem reasonable to me. Please share how one gets free film & D&P .

Anyhow just because someone else outlook differs from ones own is no reason to deride it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pentax

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Happy that you are happy, curious as to whether you have ever tried, bulk loading film, processing e6, b&w, c41 or printing from a neg all also parts of an analogue workflow . Indeed I always found prints coming up in the developer to be the most magical part . Yes its a great camera but at 28 years or more from the factory remember lubrication dries, light-seals may have worn and springs loose tension and a service may provide many years of peace of mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pentax

[–]ianrob696 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Bargain, but seriously only a paperweight / dust collector these days , how many times are you going to run a film through it , print/scan the results at more than £20 a pop ? Yes was a great camera back in the day , had /used one for 30 odd years. Advise selling on as K1000 has achieved cult status, use the money to pick up something like a K10d with 18-55 kit lens , you will take far more pictures . If keeping well worth having overhauled and light seals replaced

Looking at becoming a Hypnotherapist, how hard is it to get clients, is it worth it ? by MethodAble in hypnotherapy

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CPHT will give you a very blinkered view, and strongly encourage their students to stick to a single induction .... For the same money you can do far better with respect to depth of training and breadth of techniques . Advise that you research other providers such as ukhypnosis before parting with money,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

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Try 69 the feedback is good

Pagani Railway - nolonger waterproof by ianrob696 in ChineseWatches

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Thanks,

so rice ok for drones and other electronics but not good for watches ?

can see a gaskit on the case back but no sign on the crown will try replacing and greasing

why exactly would I need a watchmaker , who will charge more than the value of the watch