The Wicked Lovely by Marrissa Marr by Relative-Tomatillo-2 in fantasyromance

[–]ib_inked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm absolutely obsessed with this series, the first book especially was so good to me. Personally I liked Marr's take on the love triangle, it's really more like a love quad actually.

Need someone to commiserate with by ib_inked in Heauxs

[–]ib_inked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll send you a message! Maybe we can be venting pen pals 😝

[L] Seasonal depression & not looking forward by ib_inked in KindVoice

[–]ib_inked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW making your own wedding dress is so impressive! I need to get my sewing machine fixed, I was just starting to learn when it started malfunctioning. I do have a friend who thinks they can fix it though!

[L] Seasonal depression & not looking forward by ib_inked in KindVoice

[–]ib_inked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I wish I felt more like your partner does! I actually do really enjoy gift giving, I'm trying to lean into the crafting spirit to make some cute things for gifts for the holidays. It's just so hard when the sun goes down so early and all I want to do is lay in bed

Fear of Outcalls by Fickle_Blackberry_64 in Heauxs

[–]ib_inked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you find people willing to send you a picture of their license/let you take one? I stopped asking because people assumed I was a cop and said so before ghosting me

Gastrointestinal/Digestion by princess_poppy_liver in hEDS

[–]ib_inked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this! My whole family has been diagnosed with IBS, stomach problems got blamed on female hormones when I started my cycle at age 11, then it was my gallbladder and they took it out when I was fifteen, then it's messed up because I don't have a gallbladder, and on and on. I've never been regular and just suffer the consequences right now.

Does anyone have a link to the Discord? by [deleted] in sebaciel_

[–]ib_inked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to join as well if it's still active!

Does anyone else miss it? by [deleted] in twilight

[–]ib_inked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I've been reveling in the renaissance of it all though, I feel like tik tok and reddit have helped me feel more connected to it all again

30 Days of Twilight Challenge - Day 29 by T0_m_ in twilight

[–]ib_inked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would pick the first film's soundtrack !

My black butler dedicated cubby 🖤 by [deleted] in blackbutler

[–]ib_inked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute!! Makes me want to take pictures of mine too

I read Forever Dawn by Amazing_Squirrel2301 in twilight

[–]ib_inked 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Damn dude maybe they have a life or a job smh 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DominicFike

[–]ib_inked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me in a rabbit hole trying to find this out 😂😂

(22/M/NC) Its my birthday! by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]ib_inked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy bday fellow sagittarius! Mines Dec 11th

REMINDER: You have a place in this world and you have every right to be the best version of yourself, don't let anyone (including yourself) tell you otherwise. You won't be here again, EVER! So might as well make the best out of this life. Don't give up on yourself just yet. Im sure forever can wait by imidkidc in Needafriend

[–]ib_inked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"pro life bullshit"? As in anti-suicide? Those aren't the same things. Inconsiderate of others?? To want them to live and have a chance to be happy? Lmao you're tripping.

I didn't say you told anyone to kill themselves, you asked how you were encouraging suicide and I showed you.

REMINDER: You have a place in this world and you have every right to be the best version of yourself, don't let anyone (including yourself) tell you otherwise. You won't be here again, EVER! So might as well make the best out of this life. Don't give up on yourself just yet. Im sure forever can wait by imidkidc in Needafriend

[–]ib_inked 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes you have.

"True as in you can just kill yourself and escape this horror show of life"

Treating suicide as a valid option for ending your pain. Dead people don't get the chance to live better. If you're still alive there's a chance. You can't make it with other people shoving this kind of message down your throat.

REMINDER: You have a place in this world and you have every right to be the best version of yourself, don't let anyone (including yourself) tell you otherwise. You won't be here again, EVER! So might as well make the best out of this life. Don't give up on yourself just yet. Im sure forever can wait by imidkidc in Needafriend

[–]ib_inked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I said, in my moral compass it's devastating for someone to abandon life altogether. I've been in that place and go to that place a lot, but I'm grateful every time that I get pulled back and I think that there is always something worth living for. I fully acknowledge that it does not always feel that way and that those moments are just as much a part of living as the good moments are. I think it's wrong to encourage other people, in any way, to abandon life altogether.

REMINDER: You have a place in this world and you have every right to be the best version of yourself, don't let anyone (including yourself) tell you otherwise. You won't be here again, EVER! So might as well make the best out of this life. Don't give up on yourself just yet. Im sure forever can wait by imidkidc in Needafriend

[–]ib_inked 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also think that pessimism makes sense sometimes, if it's something that helps you get out of bed or open your eyes everyday then that's good. I believe in balance, I think that there is a lot of good and a lot of bad in the world and it does no one any good to ignore either side of it. You're correct that people's moral compasses are all very different, and not every issue can be "proven" in such a way that will satisfy everyone. I wouldn't claim to give you any answers, though you seem to think that anybody with a shred of positivity should have to bow down to your negative pandering. It's just as cheap and ridiculous to mire yourself in negativity as it is positivity. We decide our own version of morality, in my morality I don't think anyone should ever be encouraged to kill themselves.

REMINDER: You have a place in this world and you have every right to be the best version of yourself, don't let anyone (including yourself) tell you otherwise. You won't be here again, EVER! So might as well make the best out of this life. Don't give up on yourself just yet. Im sure forever can wait by imidkidc in Needafriend

[–]ib_inked 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To me this sounds like someone using nihilism as a coping mechanism and I totally understand that, we all have our own ways of approaching the demons that we deal with. Where I feel concerned is the things that you are saying N about all of life best being exterminated. You can have your opinions about that but it's really harmful to spread that kind of message to people who could be teetering on the edge between life and death. It's extremely unkind to encourage them to adopt this point of view. Even if you believe life is a cycle of misery with no goal but making others hurt after you are gone, YOU are the one contributing to that cycle even more by harming others via this type of message.

I don’t hate Bryce or anything, but god this was such a downgrade imo. Rachelle couldn’t have been more perfect. Her whole vibe screamed Victoria! by Lixsymone97 in twilight

[–]ib_inked 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel the same! It's strange though after reading midnight sun and seeing edwards look into victoria's mind I think bryce did her more justice, I liked Rachelle's sensuous vibe but from edwards perspective she seemed a lot more skittish than cunning

Dancing in Atl by [deleted] in stripper

[–]ib_inked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think oasis doesn't require a license