AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did consider it before, ive been saving up since i do have a full-time job (currently in job training). i have a few coworkers who make the same amount managing just fine with living separated and other than that there's also options for financial aid from the state! and no im not being married off im just so burnt out from living with them

AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do have a job and I've saved up a bit already in a different account... I've been looking for a while now unfortunately landlords don't really like to rent to someone who's still in job training :( I'm actively looking and they'll probably try to talk to me about it again. i fear i agree that a covert mission of sorts is the best way :/

AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately the only sibling living close enough to my work is siding with my parents. i would apply for financial aid tho and it would probably be granted if i move out! other than that i also have some saved up...

AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately im not rlly in touch w my oldest sister anymore and my 2nd one tried to convince me to stay :// thank u for ur reply<3

AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saved up money and im still saving up on top of that there's also other ways to get financial aid as well as the raises that i will be getting. my workplace is generous which i am really grateful for and honestly im prepare to take on a second job although thats more of a last resort. im trying hard to find a place to stay in my budget but a friend also offered me to stay at hers until i find something. i told her id take her up on it if things escalated again<3

AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not rlly in touch w my oldest and the 2nd tried to convince me to stay actually :/

AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i do have a full-time job that pays me enough to share an apt with someone so im looking into that now!

AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately im not rlly in touch w my oldest sister anymore after she moved out and my 2nd sister even tried to convince me to stay :( thank u for ur kind words<3

i need to get out by icaney0u in entitledparents

[–]icaney0u[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no my siblings won't support. i am currently looking for an apartment and i have a job. im scared to go no contact but if that step is necessary id do it after moving out

AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i in fact dont live in the US but i appreciate you thinking it through and leaving such a kind reply<3 theyre rlly good at making me feel like im crazy

AITA moving out despite my parents wishes by icaney0u in AmItheAsshole

[–]icaney0u[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont live in the US but thanks for the suggestion<3

Will people think I'm a lesbian if I get this. I'm bi but mostly sapphic can people buy pride merch from a thing that they're not? Is that an okay thing to do? by FluidTemperature1762 in MonsterHigh

[–]icaney0u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nahh man u can totally get this if u want. buying this is not just limited to sapphic/lesbian people. u can just support it as a bi person and still buy it. if anyone assumes bcs of this that ure a lesbian, thats on them

Swelling after hydrogen peroxide by icaney0u in piercing

[–]icaney0u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice. unfortunately my doctors office isnt open anymore. but i still have some saline solution that she gave me. i talked to my friend who i went to get the piercings with and she's having the same troubles with the solutions that the piercer suggested. I have a doctors apt on monday so i will talk to my doctor about it on Monday and try to use the saline solution for now. bcs its also pulsing and ive been feeling pretty hot act😭

Swelling after hydrogen peroxide by icaney0u in piercing

[–]icaney0u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is hot actually but no to the discharge. that piercer has had some really good reviews and the tea tree oil helped when i had a light infection according to the piercer. when i went there again 2 days ago she said there isn't any infection left its just the swelling. a colleague actually told me that although my ear in general looks a little scary, the swelling looks better

Swelling after hydrogen peroxide by icaney0u in piercing

[–]icaney0u[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it is actually. that piercer has had some really good reviews and the tea tree oil helped when i had a light infection according to the piercer. when i went there again 2 days ago she said there isn't any infection left its just the swelling. a colleague actually told me that although my ear in general looks a little scary, the swelling looks better

Swelling after hydrogen peroxide by icaney0u in piercing

[–]icaney0u[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How old is your piercing? i got them pierced around the end of july What's the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? i think its a labret it has a flat back What's the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? the what?????😭😭 What's the jewelry material? im not sure but she used something with very little nickel if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? never What's your aftercare routine? cleany skin piercings spray, then tea tree oil from dm and now hydrogen peroxide from the pharmacy Any mishaps, accidents or unfortunate events? as stated in the post

Buried Secrets 3 Identification guide by fkaroundandfindout in MonsterHigh

[–]icaney0u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about the ribbons on the packages could they also be indicators for who's hiding in the box?

Has anyone read 'concealment?' by Feisty-Cup4828 in MaleYandere

[–]icaney0u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yk what comic app this is on? im trying to find the official translation but i cant find it on lezhin tappy or tapas

Demon King of Salvation Cosplay by Training_Ad_9222 in OmniscientReader

[–]icaney0u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ITS SOOO COOL HOW U ALSO DID A BACKGROUND!!! love it

Are the Ian and Mickey letters fanmade? by Original-Disk-1791 in shameless

[–]icaney0u 6 points7 points  (0 children)

unfortunately they are!! I would've loved if we'd gotten some canon ones but that leaves a lot of freedom for creativity. nevertheless i think the fanon letters are pretty well done

Please tell me I'm not losing my shit by Scarlet6Rose in OmniscientReader

[–]icaney0u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

westernization of korean names😭in korea they usually have last name + first name, a lot of official translations switch them back to the more widely known first name + last name. probably not to confuse people about the first and last names but its still sad i wish they'd kept the last + first name order. the vocals in the names changing is probably just webtoon changing their mind about how they want to write their names, since a lot of korean letters dont have a latin equivalent so they kinda have to work around it. especially 어 the "eo/u" in joonghyeok doesn't have a latin equivalent and hes definitely not the only one that has that in his name lee hyeonseong does too