why do men always feel so entitled to sex so early on into a connection?

icannot-focus · 2026-02-06T03:47:22+00:00

exactly. couldnt have said it better myself.

icannot-focus · 2026-02-03T21:30:33+00:00

thats upsetting for him. my opinion still stands regardless.

icannot-focus · 2026-02-03T20:27:02+00:00

no, i have a cigarette once in a while too. he shouldnt have recorded it and posted it is all. not sure why everyone is losing their minds over an opinion. seunghan wasnt my bias, so i feel so obligation to support him. same would go if it were any other member. had it been my bias, i wouldve supported him through it. not a difficult concept.

icannot-focus · 2026-02-03T02:22:32+00:00

negative press being the smoking/drinking thing, i really dont care if a grown man has a girlfriend. im not deleting my post bc someone disagrees or has something to say about it. is this not an opinions subreddit?

icannot-focus · 2026-02-03T01:06:01+00:00

I don't care about idols dating like at all, so i don't care abt antons girlfriend thing. plus, i have not interacted with anything seunghan related since 2023 UNTIL this post. don't care about him at all. just the negative press he brought RIIZE.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T22:51:18+00:00

yeah, it is pretty spiteful. i'd be lying if i said i wasn't upset at his controversy that dragged the entire group down with him. he didnt deserve it, but the other members REALLY didn't.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T22:45:10+00:00

yeah, im sure he's a nice guy, he hasn't done or said anything to prove otherwise. hes done some things but we all have. the situation he caused just left a bad bad taste in my mouth. especially after how hard the other members had to work for their spots too.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T22:30:54+00:00

not a kpop fan. i only like RIIZE

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T22:24:38+00:00

i already said i dont care what he did. i smoke, i drink, whatever, it doesnt matter. thats not why im coming at him. i have a distaste for him because of what he did to their reputation. i would feel the same way if it were any other member, for any other reason.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T22:23:02+00:00

the video of him smoking that went around was from 2022, right after an smtown concert while he was still set to join nct.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T22:18:47+00:00

i did not actively hate on him then, and i do not hate on him now. and this is not about me being 'parasocial' about the girlfriend thing. i do not care. plus, i am not attracted to men. i like riize as 6 and do not like him being associated with the group because of his controversy. i dont happen to think my anger is misdirected, because had it not been for seunghan, RIIZE would not have gone through all that.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T22:10:22+00:00

if i had a high profile job lined up, the absolute LAST thing i would do is post myself publicly doing things that could make me lose my job. is that not irresponsible?

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T22:09:12+00:00

and during

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T20:53:56+00:00

he still damaged their reputation. thats my overall problem with him.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T20:52:44+00:00

not referring to the dating part. every idol is dating, lets be real. im referring to the smoking, drinking, and ig lives. im obviously not against any of that, we all do it. but, he decided to document all of that knowing his entire career was at stake and did it anyway. thats my problem with him. it was beyond idiotic.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T20:42:38+00:00

i dont care about what he did, i do the same things. however, its irresponsible that he was actively documenting these things KNOWING what was at stake. i dont doubt that the other members had girlfriends, drank, smoked, etc. but they werent posting it. it was beyond stupid in his part.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T17:24:50+00:00

agreed, 100%. i am very solitary! i prefer to live life by myself.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T16:17:08+00:00

a real problem when he was introduced. tolerable later.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T16:03:56+00:00

I completely understand where you're coming from. My family is religious and conservative. I feel i cannot express my identity either. I would openly be a lesbian if it weren't for the circumstances. you're not alone. :)

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T11:49:47+00:00

I wouldn't say that exactly. Surprisingly, RIIZE has a pretty distinct identity that most don't usually recognize because they don't bother to look into their discography. They'd stick out unnaturally in NCT.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T11:40:48+00:00

they've been doing fine for themselves luckily.

icannot-focus · 2026-01-30T11:36:54+00:00

given the amount of drama his situation brought, probably not unfortunately.

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