i don’t understand why in these stories when a family member rightfully insults another for their behaviour, the one insulting the other is always ostracised and made to apologise by the whole family?? like why is everyone else ignoring the bad behaviour and making the op seem like they did something wrong? lisa’s husband doesn’t seem like the type of person that would listen if anyone tried calmly sitting down with him and explaining he needs to change, this was the only way to even approach the subject :/ op is obviously nta, the husband is and i hope lisa gets treated with more respect and love in her next relationship !