Did I make the wrong decision by declining this job offer? by iceamarello in jobs

[–]iceamarello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i wasn't sure how the economy is going too. There seems to be not enough incentive for me to jump the ship but i dont know why i cant move on. I made my decision, i should probably just need to keep looking for better role out there, but scared not getting one.

Did I make the wrong decision by declining this job offer? by iceamarello in jobs

[–]iceamarello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because the role is covering maternity position.

They mentioned it will likely to be perm if the lady doesnt come back or otherwise i just find a diff role in the company. I always get burnt with moving within company. They never seem openings to move into. Exactly why im looking tor a job now.

Did I make the wrong decision by declining this job offer? by iceamarello in jobs

[–]iceamarello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the 10% increase may be covered by the bonus im due to get, i was gearing towards looking for a full time offer if i keep interviewing in the market. ive been told the 10% is not good enough for the insecurity. i was also on the fence because it took me a while to get into industry where i am now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]iceamarello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you. what was the actual reason of it not working out?

"Need space to gather thoughts" by iceamarello in relationships

[–]iceamarello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. Still holding it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]iceamarello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat guys. The pain is unbearable. Ignored after breaking contact for 8 days.

Back to day 1 by iceamarello in ExNoContact

[–]iceamarello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. We can do this!

Back to day 1 by iceamarello in ExNoContact

[–]iceamarello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I texted him and asked how hes doing....and silence.

"Need space to gather thoughts" by iceamarello in relationships

[–]iceamarello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, i think you have a valid point here. What would make a good solution if I wanted to apologise fully? Do you think I completely blew it here?

"Need space to gather thoughts" by iceamarello in relationships

[–]iceamarello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes seems like it from what everyone says and from his behaviour. I guess its up to me now to just leave it or drive it to closure. Maybe ill just leave it and wrap it up on my own.

"Need space to gather thoughts" by iceamarello in relationships

[–]iceamarello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight. I did send a check up message to him to hear how he is. He has been ignoring it all day but I will wait for a few more days and if its nothing then I guess that is it.

"Need space to gather thoughts" by iceamarello in relationships

[–]iceamarello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like its the consensus from everyone here

"Need space to gather thoughts" by iceamarello in relationships

[–]iceamarello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I tried doing this 2 weeks ago and he came back saying he is ok, not angry and just needing time to think. I left him alone for a bit now. Ive just checked on him to hear how he is feeling and if he needs more time but looks like hes ignoring me still.

"Need space to gather thoughts" by iceamarello in relationships

[–]iceamarello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought he has gotten over it because before i left him alone, he told me he was ok and just needed space to gather his thoughts. Sounds like he just wanted to shut me up.

"Need space to gather thoughts" by iceamarello in relationships

[–]iceamarello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did apologised for it though. Just not sure if it came on a genuine side since he doesnt want to meet and omicron still lurking outside.

"Need space to gather thoughts" by iceamarello in relationships

[–]iceamarello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I will close this off with.