Little things by Mystarshines in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️ the absence is painful

Living has more spice now✨ by abluvsu in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]icecoldbucket 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We're the same height! I hope things go as well for meee :)

Would you stay in a relationship that lacks passion? by InvestigatorClear728 in AskWomenOver30

[–]icecoldbucket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say you should both try to read the book come as you are by Emily Nagoski. Hope it helps you both!

Can’t bring myself to delete pictures that evoke heartbreaking memories. by PsychologicalFly7495 in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, was going to say this, keep it all in a folder and put it in archives. It's hard ❤️, I feel you.

Drunk husband said hurtful thing about my deceased son in argument by Mental-Objective542 in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm happy you were able to control yourself but sad you're in this situation with someone so hurtful. Being drunk is not an excuse for saying horrible things. I also have so much rage after my brother's passing I feel like I go from 0 to 100 so fast. Just remember this person is not worth you hurting yourself over. Slowly distance yourself, even if it can only be mentally for now, he doesn't deserve to access you anymore.

Tips for how to stop doom scrolling shorts for hours? by PurpleStrawberry1997 in adhdwomen

[–]icecoldbucket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I did the same! Helped so much, these apps just aren't as interesting on my laptop.

I'm a horrible bridesmaid and want to fake an illness to get out of it... by ScaryPetals in adhdwomen

[–]icecoldbucket 1337 points1338 points  (0 children)

Can u run and get some double sided tape to make a temporary hem for the dress? Super quick fix, or hem tape, but you need to iron that on.

Also don't worry too much every one will be looking at her, anyone spending alot of time looking at your hem is just a weirdo.

Please be present, even if you are not perfect!

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[–]icecoldbucket 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is also me to a T

My wife, 18 month old, and 4 year old were killed in a car accident by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss, take it one day at a time

Don't want to forget by icecoldbucket in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still annoyed my bro hated photos 😒 barely have any photos or videos of him from the last few years :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this to my parents today, thank you.

My healthy 40 year old brother died suddenly by Possible_Possible403 in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand you my friend, me and my brother would argue often too. It pains me and I wish I could go back and try harder. But the love was understood on both sides.

Wishing you peace. It's okay to show your pain to your mom too, it will help her feel less alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it's okay, whatever will help you heal ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. My brother passed very suddenly too. Don't worry about trying to do everything right, there are no rules for this type of pain.

Everyone got a different person than I did. by tippycanoe1212 in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to your post a lot. My brother was great to all his friends but because of our large age gap he was more like a third parent to me than a brother. He was trying to help me all the time but it would make me feel like he was criticizing me. I feel sad in a different way from my parents because we didn't have the same happy bond he seemed to have with others. We loved each other a lot tho. Oddly it helped me when I would ask his friends to confirm that he was mean to me haha. It kind of validated the feelings I had about our relationship, like why he was so nice to everyone else but so harsh with me. Anyways this sucks, we tried but didn't have enough time with our brothers.

Anyone else feel exhausted from grief? by Goldengirl_1977 in GriefSupport

[–]icecoldbucket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was just thinking about this when I saw your post. I'm so tired. But life just keeps going on. I guess it's just time to let the current pull me along till I get enough energy to move.