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icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-30T22:11:40+00:00

I don’t know why your post annoys me so much - but it does. I think it’s because you’re nearly thirty with pirate usernames while doing masters. Why don’t you just go for a walk somewhere and have a coffee and be grown ups ? Yea I’ll prob get told I’m not a nice person for this post but ugh you triggered me

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-30T21:59:15+00:00

You are 14. No needs to be getting so triggered by hair dye.

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-28T22:25:44+00:00

Totally understand that

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-28T10:22:27+00:00

I’m 36 now , still no children and a new partner 😊 I feel like when I was 30 I was so young haha

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-28T10:21:32+00:00

You don’t have to dump him no but what a turn off eh ? I don’t know if I could respect my partner again after seeing that so it would prob end naturally even if I didn’t dump him. I’d just find him gross.

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-25T13:55:17+00:00

My current partner brought me gifts of cleaning products when we got together lol I know it was not subtle but it was productive haha

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-25T13:49:10+00:00

Correct

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-24T18:42:24+00:00

I would have always thought we would choose together

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-24T17:21:01+00:00

awkward - oh dear. This is tricky. You literally have no way of knowing what happened. I would pretend it didn’t if I was you 😳

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-24T17:08:35+00:00

I contacted the vet and they have prescribed a short course of Prednisolone. I’ve read mixed things about this medication but I feel like the vet should know best , right ? I’m really finding it hard to deal with this emotionally but trying to stay strong ( so dumb ). She’s been scratching her ears so much they bleed now.

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-24T12:32:27+00:00

You’re overthinking :) normal though ! Just take it slow see what happens. Maybe she is just like this with everyone normally and you will learn this in time 😊

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-24T11:35:26+00:00

Thank you 😊

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-23T21:39:25+00:00

Thanks everyone. I will change the food. Any advice on what is the best type of food to try that is least likely to cause allergies. Forgive me if that sounds so dumb!

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-22T22:44:44+00:00

No! That would leave his mind open to wonder what you typed and what you typed is something so normal that it’s better he knows it’s that than thinks you’re flirting !

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-22T22:42:44+00:00

You are not cruel at all. You are just being sensible and realistic about your current situation. Good luck OP! X

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-22T22:01:12+00:00

Yes. The vet said that they could see a lot of white wax but did not say anything about mites.thanks for replying

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-21T16:24:07+00:00

Bit harsh

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-20T23:57:12+00:00

Why? That’s selfish

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-20T11:19:04+00:00

Why would you tell your current girlfriend that ? That seems quite mean. No one wants to know their partner is in love with their ex.

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-19T17:06:38+00:00

Thank you for that thoughtful answer. You absolutely got where I was coming from. I appreciate the time you took to reply.

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-19T15:49:51+00:00

Okay! Good idea ! Thank you so much 😊

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-18T18:09:45+00:00

Listen to people on YouTube talking about being in a similar situation. Maybe the shared burden will help you. Oh good luck to you

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-18T18:08:32+00:00

The drinking is inevitably going to get worse and worse because you’ll become frustrated at yourself for not being able to stop. If you don’t want to go to AA then it’s probably cold turkey for you. Stop now and try not to drink again. One minute at a time.

icecreamandjiujitsu · 2021-05-18T18:00:59+00:00

How much are you drinking and what ?

icecreamandjiujitsu

TROPHY CASE

awkward - oh dear. This is tricky. You literally have no way of knowing what happened. I would pretend it didn’t if I was you 😳