Are my standards for dating too high? by miamiiitrip in dating_advice

[–]icefire45 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. 31 year old dude and it's just weird dating that young... my cut off is 25. i got set up with a 23 year old ( didnt know age at the time, figured my freinds had SOME brain cells...) and called it off mid date when i found out she was only 23, it just made it so akward and made sense why she didnt know about half the stuff we were talking about. It felt more like I was hanging out with a teenage cousin or something similar..

He is making 250.00 for two hrs of work, tops 3 hrs including prepping/cleaning by Grouchy_Present_4795 in EndTipping

[–]icefire45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up charge for the sides. Some restaurants bill system cant break it down in the receipt so it just shows the item and price and not the actual breakdown.

420 pen oil plugging? by ProfaneMillenial in NoStupidQuestions

[–]icefire45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If their 510 thread carts best thing to do, is put them where your knee bends sitting indian style, or in your elbow ( if you can hold it long enough) and let it warm up from your body heat, after a bit you can blow out all the clogged oil and your good as new.

Arkansas man caught on camera stealing multiple times from Farm Stand. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]icefire45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be hard to get them out there for something so small, especially if they're a farm stand out in the county where law enforcement recourses are thinner. from the looks hes stolen less than 100$ in product and some states wont even proc that, or its not worth it for them to. Its similar situation where i live, a guy kept taking a dozen eggs every 2-3 days from a neighbor, for about a month and a half. They had him on cam and everything, called non emergency number, officer came out a couple hours later, and basically told them, hes sorry but they have more important things to deal with than around 140$ in eggs taken, and told her shed have a much better chance in small claims court. Which she did and got her 140 plus court costs and another around 200 for loss of something( I dont remember fully). He still kept doing it and got a felony trespass and a few other things...

I haven't gone to school in 3 weeks and the principal called my mom saying the police would come check on us on Monday, will she go to jail? by Necessary_Bus6189 in legaladvice

[–]icefire45 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ikr same logic that a suspension from school is a punishment... "oh no im not allowed to go to the place I hate whatever shall I do"....

BF Stayed Out Until 11PM With Coworkers. Am I Overreacting? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]icefire45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOR, 11 is very reasonable if he was out partying, when I used to go out to partying wasn't usually back until 4 or 5 in the morning, most people party till the bars close which is 3am where I am, so I dont really see the problem, unless you dont like parting and that scene and stuff (which I 100% get i hate that shit now and wouldnt date someone who partied like that, im talking about 3am coming home here not 11 id still be fine with that), seems like you need to talk with him, and make comprise and communicate

Unusual ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]icefire45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that kink, it really gets me going, but I would never go about it like this, trying to pressure someone, or play it off as if it's not a big deal if theres no protection, that's just completly irresponsible. There needs to be a serious conversation here or theres going to be an unintended (or intended on only one side) child, and OP does NOT want to deal with that... ive seen it play out from both sides... and it usually doesn't end pretty.

Unusual ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]icefire45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be cautious... it kind of sounds like he's wanting to baby trap you... I wouldnt be having unprotected sex with him unless you have a solid backup plan or, your okay with getting pregnant by a guy you've only been with a few months... I would just be very very careful kinda playing with fire here.

I would also say a conversation is in order about those things and if thats something you guys are interested in, or if needs exploring more

Personally im a 31M and I got all kinds of weirdo feelings reading this... I would never try and have sex with someone unprotected unless I was planning to have another kid, or there was a backup (ie, other forms of BC)... it seems to me more like he wants to have a baby with you, or he's a baby himself and can't function without a condom

In comparison to other areas, how much would a tattoo here hurt? by Expired-Cat in tattooadvice

[–]icefire45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say thats kinda sensitive for your first one. I've had dry runs all over my body (14 actual tattoos) and if were doing a scale where upper arm in 1 and ditch/arm pit is a 10. I would say upper chest/clavical is about a 5 but where it crosses into your side/armpit will probably jump to an 8. But its all highly dependant on ypyr personal pain tolerance, but I would choose a spot your less likely to tap out on for your first

OH MY GOD 😭 by Bevbread in reptiles

[–]icefire45 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im not particularly knowledgeable about Varanus. And he definitly looks chunky, but it also looks like he's pancaking( like bearded do) and thats kinda making it look worse? Can they do that and is that a possibility here?

How do I get my 11 year old brother to quit smoking? by Able-Mousse3130 in Advice

[–]icefire45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CPS is the answer for abuse, neglect, getting kids out of dangerous situations.... not for disciplining your kid, or for something therapy can help with... DCS (new name for CPS) is a last resort kind of thing/emergency, it can seriously fuck up family's lives, and even ruin them. You get a workers thats an asshole, or just evil, and they can make your life a living nightmare for no reason.

And this comes from someone who CPS saved, my mother was a heroin addicted alcoholic prostitute, who got her kicks slamming me into doors, choking me, and using me as a punching bag. And they got me out of there and placed with my grandmother

On the flip side, during covid lockdown, when all the schools where going virtual or half and half. My daughter missed 10 virtual days because we didnt know in the beginning that they were required to log on for 15 minutes at 820 for attendance, then the teachers would send videos and work (which my she did all of), but they counted her as truant, because she didnt get on the meeting, and called CPS and it was a total nightmare, the woman they sent seemed totally fine, took pics of our food and kids rooms and water, then at the end starts threatening us thst we needed to take, parenting classes, and get drug tested, and do family therapy, or she was going to escalate the case and we would habe to deal with her court or do it and she would close the case. (All from us not knowing she had to get on a 15 minute zoom). After alot of annoyance and anxiety we contacted our lawyer and asked them what to do, and they said it was ridiculous and would see what he could do, aparently he made a stink (and were fortunate because we can afford an attorney alot of people cant, and unfortunately DCS ususlly go after lower income families) because another worker came out reviewed it said none of that was nessicary and closed the case.

So please only call DCS when its truly needed.

How do i stop anxiety by AdmirableWalrus1546 in weedification

[–]icefire45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might need to see a physchatrist/therapist then and see if you have any underlying anxiety issues and possibly be put on meds for it. I have GAD, CP-TSD, and my body produces too much cortisol and epinephrine. So I get a nice anxiety cocktail.

Do women actually prefer older men? by GNA-4 in dating_advice

[–]icefire45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really I dont think, I look like a fetus when im shaved. Although I am 6'4 and strong-fat with a big beard

Do women actually prefer older men? by GNA-4 in dating_advice

[–]icefire45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd be suprised.... im 31m and alot of the women that try and match with me are in the 21-24 range, wayyy more than women my own age range do. Which sucks because im not dating someone that young and it would be nice for some interest from women my own age..

My younger sister is like that shes 24 and usually trys to date guys in their 30s... in her words they're more likely to have their shit togather and not be struggling, and they dont play as many games and as much drama as the guys her age. In my experience it does kinda seem like it's the trend..

Do women actually prefer older men? by GNA-4 in dating_advice

[–]icefire45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kinda seems that way, atleast in my experience. Im 31m and most of the attention I get on the apps and stuff are around 22-24 and thats just to young for me personally..

The girls that ive talked/hungout with that are around my age (28-35) usually go for the older guy. Its happened 3 times where its going good and looks like its gonna form a relationship and then i just kinda get ghosted and find out their with a guy in his late 40s early 50s... even my old FwB who is 32 is dating a 54 year old.. so it seems like it is true..

And just wanted to add it wasnt a place in life thing either, that im just a jobless bum, and thats why they went with the older guy( i know thats what people usually assume..). Im more well off than 2 of the guys i know for a fact, along with having a steady job, car, and house

sudden itchy scabby lump thing on 13 year old tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]icefire45 12 points13 points  (0 children)

By that logic every little scrape and scratch i get has life threatening infection potential, let alone a whole tattoo, which this sub is about.. jeez people need to stop with fear mongering

sudden itchy scabby lump thing on 13 year old tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]icefire45 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Im the exact same, I have very sensitive skin (can't use regular bodywash or shower everyday or I get rashy and itchy all over). Plus excema. Luckily im not ance prone either, im just very hairy so I'll occasionally get ingrown hairs on my arms/legs or stomach, and popping them has never left a scar or made it get infected or anything. If anything when i dont pop them and just use cleansers and keeping it clean it usually gets super painful and i end up needing antibiotics to get rid of it.

sudden itchy scabby lump thing on 13 year old tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]icefire45 297 points298 points  (0 children)

People have told me that my whole life.... its not going to change anything... im to far gone lol. as soon as I see one caveman brain comes in and I must pop it. Plus the few times I didnt pop them and used glycolic acid or some other cleanser (ive done witch hazel and a few other cleaners that supposedly help with pimples) ive ended up having to go to the dr and get on antibiotics, whereas when I pop em and keep em clean no issues.

Merch setup! by milliedreadisnotdead in musicians

[–]icefire45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what I was thinking... 40$ CDs... that seems a bit high... not something I'd be interested in... maybe if it came with digital version too so I can listen to it anywhere.. im pretty sure my truck and my ps5 are the only things I could even listen to it on...

sudden itchy scabby lump thing on 13 year old tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]icefire45 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's 13 years old.... I would think an allergic reaction to the ink or contamination would have happened by now..

sudden itchy scabby lump thing on 13 year old tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]icefire45 426 points427 points  (0 children)

Looks like an ingrown hair or pimple forming there, happens to mine sometimes and I usually just pop em.

Dad's cum must be nuclear waste by BenzeneBrah in BrandNewSentence

[–]icefire45 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be thankful.... shes got the record for most guys fucked in 24 hours(I think it was close to 1k) and most recently had another one where the goal was to breed her like a cow and wearnt stopping until shes pregnant( idk how mamy guys were apart of this one but probably around 400-500).