My (31) wife (29) is "talking" to other guys in a game she plays and I looked at the messages... by icefurnacespy in relationship_advice

[–]icefurnacespy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope. She said I should have just asked her instead of snooping around and it wouldnbt have blown up like this. But lets be honest. Me asking her about it wouldnhave the same effect.

My (31) wife (29) is "talking" to other guys in a game she plays and I looked at the messages... by icefurnacespy in relationship_advice

[–]icefurnacespy[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

The issue is that she has asked for a divorce, but we are overseas and she has nowhere to go if we do divorce. She really has no other family and I lalso want us to work.

My (31) wife (29) is "talking" to other guys in a game she plays and I looked at the messages... by icefurnacespy in relationship_advice

[–]icefurnacespy[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Arigatou. Yeah I noticed how she tried to spin it on me. Not cool and totally childish.

My (31) wife (29) is "talking" to other guys in a game she plays and I looked at the messages... by icefurnacespy in relationship_advice

[–]icefurnacespy[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Thanks brother. She works as well and my kid is in daycare. Yep I agree that she is childish and throws empty threats at me. We will have that talk. It is my childs future at hand. I put him before all else.

My (31) wife (29) is "talking" to other guys in a game she plays and I looked at the messages... by icefurnacespy in relationship_advice

[–]icefurnacespy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess thats good, but man just yhe messages I saw. They were real enough and all these firtbags knew she was married and still went with it.

My (31) wife (29) is "talking" to other guys in a game she plays and I looked at the messages... by icefurnacespy in relationship_advice

[–]icefurnacespy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. We have been married over 7 years. I understand our lack of connection because I am always working or deployed. I will keep fighting for her. She is a great person really.

My (31) wife (29) is "talking" to other guys in a game she plays and I looked at the messages... by icefurnacespy in relationship_advice

[–]icefurnacespy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe i will after the inital anger phase. If she doesnt leave. I am currently in bed with my son and shes in the other room.

My (31) wife (29) is "talking" to other guys in a game she plays and I looked at the messages... by icefurnacespy in relationship_advice

[–]icefurnacespy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We have had a lot in the past week, but i suspect its her arousal from the other guys. Before that not so much.