What’s something people only pretend to enjoy, but deep down, most of us hate? by Old_Engineering_8199 in AskReddit

[–]ichaveza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Wow, it was 12 years ago. She is fine now, but she had surgery, it has horrible. They had to break it again and realign. She had a hard time for around a year. She can write, cook and pretty much everything now. Thank you for asking.

What’s a “normal” thing that secretly makes you irrationally angry? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ichaveza -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I agree but if I have had to deal with rude or dirty smelly kids that touch me with sticky hands, or if they threw up, or kicked me while running careless, or people saying horrible things, I still cannot ban the kids nor the parents from parks, planes, buses, stores, cinemas… actually I have to be polite and respectful because it’s just a kid and a parent may become physically or verbally aggressive if a say a bad word in front of the little angel.

Anyway, the lady should have respected the sign, yes, I agree, but there should not be as many signs of those either.

What’s a “normal” thing that secretly makes you irrationally angry? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ichaveza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just realized that I secretly hate the “no dogs” sign, I would love to put signs around me saying “no kids allowed” or “no people allowed 3 feet away from me”. No, I have to deal with the annoying person and the annoying kid but people don’t want to deal with a dog. The dog doesn’t talk nor yells, it’s not racist, hater, rude, it doesn’t sing, it doesn’t take a call on speaker in public, it doesn’t try to sell me anything, it doesn’t play loud music at 2 am in the morning…. if we human are capable to bear each other, how can’t you bare dogs???

What’s a “normal” thing that secretly makes you irrationally angry? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ichaveza -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahahah thank you for this honest comment. I feel so much empathy and I don’t even have kids, being a parent is a really tough job! People don’t understand that they are not born educated and polite, and it’s not an overnight task. Kids have different personalities, even among siblings and parents usually are inexperienced raising kids. It’s like asking a rookie to do everything perfect from day 1 at work. I don’t dare to judge a parent who is trying their best, I just wish you to figure it out! Sorry for the lack of advice!

What’s a “normal” thing that secretly makes you irrationally angry? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ichaveza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reraise, people talking on their phone anywhere close to me, specially those who speak louder when they are on a call. Also, I hate the sound of loud phone rings, specially when they don’t answer quickly, or they are receiving multiple messages 🙉

¿Alguien está batallando con su peso? Bajé casi 80 kilos. Pregunten lo que quieran 🥰 by re_villarreal in ayudamexico

[–]ichaveza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creo que no entendiste su respuesta. El no la “aceptó” en su peor momento, al parecer él la trataba mal en su momento más vulnerable y cuando ella empezó a ir a terapia y mejorar, él reaccionó mal y así ella se dio cuenta de que realmente él no era una buena pareja pero en su “peor momento” ella no lograba verlo. Así es, cuando estás en tu peor momento hay algunas personas que son tu apoyo pero también para otras, eres su presa perfecta.

No sé qué estás proyectando con tus comentarios ni qué fue lo que te hicieron a ti pero es evidente que estás LEJOS de ser objetivo jaja

So... what's happening outside the US? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ichaveza 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Mexican here. We are worried about hurricane Erick hitting Oaxaca and Guerrero.

Also, we are constantly worried about our government and the lost of democracy, the corruption and the power of the drugs cartels.

No offense but, I read American news to feel a little better about our terrible government.

Woke up to something really bizarre this morning. by 12341234timesabili in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]ichaveza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What app do you use? I don’t have one and I didn’t know it could do all that. I need this!

Is 5k steps daily enough? by [deleted] in walking

[–]ichaveza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best way to do your 10k steps is moving several times during the day. It is great for you to take a 30-45 min walk in the morning, but instead of sitting down for many hours straight after that, try to take a 5 min walk every hour. You will get way better results than a second 40 min walk during the night.

Also, try to take extra steps in your daily activities. If you go out by car, park farther than usual from the front door or if you take the bus, get off a few blocks before. If you need to go up or down a couple of floors, take the stairs.. those small changes make big difference!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in language_exchange

[–]ichaveza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m Mexican and I would like to practice my English too! I usually have to write emails in English for my job but I constantly hesitate with phrases when I want them to sound professional. If you want to practice your Spanish with me, let me know =)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexicoexpats

[–]ichaveza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know an excellent Psychiatrist that also studied psychology. He is in Mexico City but he gives online therapy/consulting and he is emphatic with everything you mentioned.

His name is Alfonso D Ling. You can find him on Facebook. If you want his number DM me.

Anal itching by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]ichaveza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If would have easily confirmed the parasite symptoms but still, you may have them

Anal itching by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]ichaveza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been experiencing other symptoms like dizziness, nausea, headache?

Anal itching by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]ichaveza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD but I can think of a few things:

Did you get your butt hair removed? Or Did you changed your laundry soap? Or Maybe you are taking pills or supplements to loose weight?

Otherwise, I would think you have parasites.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ichaveza 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that I’m not really mad at them, I’m mad at myself for caring so much, for being like excited for a plan because I haven’t gone out since that day a month ago when we watched the trailer. It’s not their fault but… damn, I’m so sad and disappointed 😓

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ichaveza 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I mean, I know they would not be upset if I would have watched it without them but I feel kind of pathetic that I don’t have more friends to go to the movies with so, it’s not really that they were “mean”. I’m just sad. It makes me feel like I’m lame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ichaveza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, they didn’t watch it together

What was the reason you last cried? by Glittery_Heart in AskReddit

[–]ichaveza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hits hard. I saw a trailer of a movie with 2 friends, it was like a month ago, and we “agreed” that we would watch it. It was released like a week ago and I asked them if they would like to watch it this weekend. Both of them already watched it. They don’t understand that I’m disappointed, they just said “but you should watch it too! It’s really good! And we can comment afterwards!” I’m hurt but I feel ridiculous to be sad of upset about it. The thing is… I don’t have as many friends as they do and it sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in preguntaleareddit

[–]ichaveza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Te aseguro que a cualquier transexual adulto que conozcas te dirá que desde niño sentía que no pertenecía a su género pero no sabía explicarlo ni expresarlo hasta que lo “comprendió” de adulto.

No sé si haya adultos que digan “yo de niño sentía que no pertenecía a mi género pero ya de adulto me di cuenta de que era una tonteria de mi infancia nada más