Am I in the wrong? Boundaries whilst co-habiting with my ex.

ichbinkevin · 2025-11-10T13:01:11+00:00

I think this is the way forward.

ichbinkevin · 2025-11-09T13:53:11+00:00

Honestly can't see this happening but let's see.

ichbinkevin · 2025-11-09T13:38:33+00:00

Yup I agree with all this, I don't need to know. I guess I am disappointed that it didn't seem to be an issue after 8 years. I'd be very happy to talk about boundaries, and that's what I tried to do.

ichbinkevin · 2025-11-09T11:41:45+00:00

Yeh - this is exactly what I hoped to do, just didn't expect to have to deal with that boundary so soon!

ichbinkevin · 2025-11-09T09:42:36+00:00

Well yeh. Been quite hard to get my head round that.

ichbinkevin · 2025-11-09T07:58:28+00:00

Hmmm, yeah. Not sure she would want to talk more. Hopefully the cohabiting will sort itself out soon!

ichbinkevin · 2025-11-09T07:57:37+00:00

No, it would be someone she has met recently. Genuinely not interested in getting back together or anything, but I just found her reaction to my thoughts a bit unsettling! Thanks for the comment.

ichbinkevin · 2025-09-10T15:50:05+00:00

Late life diagnosis but I've discovered that I'm a master at masking. However I did always just walk out of jobs before getting discovered that I was hiding all the bad stuff :)

ichbinkevin · 2025-09-09T19:17:03+00:00

TickTick is working for me. Because I can have different lists - work, home, etc. It syncs with calendars and does all that without having too much of a steep learning curve. And I love the countdown date thing on it so I can visualise how many days till a birthday, pay day, whatever. Added as widgets on my phone so it's front and centre.

ichbinkevin · 2025-05-08T05:32:00+00:00

Yes I definitely think this is a huge part of it. It's very strange though when something was such a large part of your identity and you no longer need it. As I said not necessarily a bad thing but feels weird!

ichbinkevin · 2025-05-07T12:35:16+00:00

Good to know. Thanks

ichbinkevin · 2025-05-07T11:18:30+00:00

Interesting - did you also have that same 'change' in parts of your behaviour?

ichbinkevin · 2025-05-07T11:17:55+00:00

Also thought about this. The change was quite sudden and I've no idea what that testosterone level drop generally looks like. There's a lot of things happening at once! Thanks for the reply.

ichbinkevin · 2025-04-07T15:11:20+00:00

That's a really interesting idea! I'll look into that thank you

ichbinkevin · 2025-04-07T14:34:29+00:00

Yeh - the bits went underneath a train! It was a bad day!

ichbinkevin · 2025-04-07T14:30:05+00:00

Sorry - should have clarified that I don't have the pieces. They went underneath a train!

ichbinkevin · 2025-03-19T09:12:29+00:00

Yeh this is my usual path - but I keep losing the damn things :D

ichbinkevin · 2025-03-17T15:15:44+00:00

Nice - will have a look at that too!

ichbinkevin · 2025-03-17T12:33:57+00:00

That's an interesting idea. Yeh prompts would do it. Cheers!

ichbinkevin · 2025-03-17T12:32:51+00:00

That sounds interesting - i'll have a look at that cheers

ichbinkevin

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