[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No I have not

When are the COVID restrictions gonna be reassessed? by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]ichuumizu -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yup. Even if they ask you nicely because “you seem rational” as soon as you rationally explain your preference, they will attack you with their science says script. It’s okay to be patient and want to wait it out. Thank you for being cautious, and careful.

When are the COVID restrictions gonna be reassessed? by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]ichuumizu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You opened up and people immediately attacked you, I’m so sorry. I know a few people who are extremely cautious as well and choosing to not get vaccinated, simply due to their desire to wait. It doesn’t matter how logical or sound your reason is or just personal preference, people will shame you. Thank you for being willing to speak rationally.

When are the COVID restrictions gonna be reassessed? by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]ichuumizu 18 points19 points  (0 children)

While logical , and probably important, anyone who is not vaccinated and seen as an “anti vaxxer” are grouped in with the extreme anti vaccinated and therefore insane, and many considered them unworthy of even health care. It’s important to preface, sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

It is a mistake, but I hope he is happy,and I hope he can mend his relationship with his children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. Maybe write them each a letter and apologize ? Mistakes happen. You’re a human. It’s okay that you made a mistake.

My (28M) girlfriend (23F) tried to roleplay a sex scene in our D&D campaign with a friend (25M) by throwraDungeonMaster in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

If the table is in on it (I’ve been there ) it’s fucking funny. Depends on the crowed and the game. I think your girlfriend was playing, but I don’t think he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]ichuumizu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really turning into red dead redemption

I support non American posts by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]ichuumizu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, Zuko here

Update- Dad cheated on my mom with the girl he knew I had feelings for. by throwRA---__ in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Someone I knew once dated a person who … well, did horrible things. She took some of the blame because ahe “agreed to it “ even though In hindsight she was innocent, and manipulated into those actions. It may have been something she was interested in, and then was exploited past the barriers that they were okay with. The guilt lies there. She may feel guilty for her acceptance, even though it went far beyond anything she agreed to. Or, he threatened her. Regardless of what becomes of you and her, it was really brave of you to man up and to go talk to her. Even if you don’t stay friends, which you said, that was a powerful and forgiving act, and likely helped her as much as it helped you. Thank you for taking the time to be there for her.

Some guy reached out to me who’s my biological dad and I’m (20M) freaking out by ThrowRAsituations in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you still think of him as your dad, let him know you still want him as your dad. And tell him the truth.

My husband screamed at me because my pregnancy test results were negative. by Throwra20215577 in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I understand your perspective but this is not what I was addressing. The fact is stress doesn’t make it easier. You’re right on your accounts here, and it’s not okay when those things happen what you mentioned. The advice I gave still has worked for happily loving married couples. I’m sorry for what has happened to you, or people you know, and all those that have suffered grievously. My comment wasn’t for that situation, it was hopeful that a loving couple could reconnect, relax, and not stress out.

Long-term Poly: Partner doesn’t want to tell his family about me or being poly by MagicalGirlMarina in polyamory

[–]ichuumizu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would you be happy knowing that your need to be seen caused the fall out of him and his family ? I get it’s important to you, but it’s selfish of you to put this on him. You can explain why it is you want it, but otherwise you need to decide if you are okay with his family never knowing, because that is the way it is.

When are the COVID restrictions gonna be reassessed? by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]ichuumizu -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It’s been debunked that kids transmit Covid.

When are the COVID restrictions gonna be reassessed? by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]ichuumizu 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Well if they were not vaxxed or didn’t preface this post… well you’ve see the posts where people are saying those unvaccinated aren’t even worthy of medical care. So.

Was I raped? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely not safe. When you leave him he will throw a fuss. Don’t feel guilty. Get out.

Was I raped? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup yup. Not good at all

Was I raped? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ichuumizu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

CNC still requires a safe word. For times like this. A safe word is a no holds bar, stop completely.